Our Homeschool Family

As the year closes...

2010-12-27T13:36:00.003-05:00

What a very different year this has been. The loss of my parents was more than devestating on me, but as typical Stratton fashion, I pulled myself up by my proverbial bootstraps and moved on.

Update on Vickie. I found her son on Facebook. His name is Nathan and he is a wonderful person. He lives in North Carolina with his wife. I am hoping to get down there to see him sometime in this next year.

I also connected with other Stratton cousins: Ruthie and Richie (Uncle Ronald's children). So, I feel like while I lost two people who were a tremendous part of my life, I also gained some more relatives.

I went to NC with my family and Granddad for the Lackey/Sharpe Reunion. Thanks to Facebook, I am getting to know distant cousins. We're talking 5th and 6th cousins! So, my family continues to grow in many ways.

Successes: Alexander made it to Eagle Scout. To say that we are proud of him is an understatement. He worked hard and didn't let anything or anyone or any situation get in his way. He really deserves to be an Eagle.

Alec is on his way to driving. He finished his in class portion of the class and when we return from Utah in a couple weeks, he will beging the driving portion. We can't wait to have another driver in the family.

Gaby and Alec are both homechooing and moving at a steady pace. Both have the goal to graduate high school early. I think they will succeed.

Ken started a new job and seems to be loving it. He now only has a 20 minute commute as opposed to an hour and a half. Sweet!

I'm doing fine. I have new projects. I'm working on restoring civil war cemeteries here in Prince William County. It is a labour of love. So many cemeteries are in wrack and ruin and need help.

Finally, one more success for Ken and myself. At the first of September, Ken and I both began a low carb diet. To date he has dropped from 250 to 212. I have dropped from 206 to 178. Not too shabby!

Well, that is the year in a nutshell.

A new cousin

2010-05-13T14:05:00.002-04:00

Yesterday I received Aunt Vickie's death certificate in the mail. I notice a name in the Informant's section and decided to follow through and find out who this person is. I looked up on whitepages and found out that the person named is 33 years old. I realized that since Vickie was 55, perhaps this person is her son. So... where do we go these days to find people? You got it! Facebook! I have reached out to my cousin and am looking forward to hearing back from him.

On another note....

All the temple ready work is done and in order for the Youth Conference trip. I believe I have enough names for all the youth to do a baptism. Now I am going to take each name and place them on an index card with a bio. So, when the youth go to do the baptisms, they have some information about the person they are baptising. This is going to be one awesome Youth Conference!

Verification of death

2010-05-12T18:32:00.002-04:00

Well, when all else fails, go through the back door.

I was having a dickens of a time finding out if my aunt Vickie truly did pass away this past January. As you know, I had written to my aunt's apartment -- addressing the letter to the male roommates. The letter came back with no forwarding address. I sent the letter again addressed to Vickie, hoping that the executor of the Estate would receive the letter. I received it back with a postal mark stating DECEASED.

A friend of mine suggested that I contact the Medical Examiner's Office. I did, and he directed me to the County Courthouse. For $1 (as opposed to Ancestry's $80+ fee), I received an uncertified copy of the death certificate which arrived today. Cause of death... sleep apnea!

I am not closing the case on Vickie. I will continue to try and locate the man who was living with her at the time of death. He is also listed as the informant. I want to learn about my aunt, who she was and what her life was like.

I had also sent away for her birth certificate from Texas. I received back a form to complete and another monetary request. (I had already paid them.) I will send that form in with a copy of her death certificate and see what information I can ascertain about her mother from that document. I already know her name and maiden name, but hopefully it will list her birthplace.

The request for the marriage/divorce certificate for Ruth Holmes (my grandmother) was unattainable by the location/agency I contacted. They did give me another location to research. I'll reach out to them tomorrow.

Frustrated Research Efforts

2010-05-05T15:55:00.002-04:00

Today I received mail! I get excited about mail when I am waiting to hear from ancestral inquiries. We'll start with my Aunt Vickie.

As you recall, I sent a letter to her last known address where she died. At first I addressed it to the men who were rooming with her. That returned to me. Then I decided to send the letter addressed to her (with a letter inside directed to the Executor of her Estate). That letter came back to me today with a yellow sticker from the postal service and handwritten scrawl which read DECEASED. I guess we are at the end of the line here with Vickie. For now. Still trying to locate the men that resided with her.

Next was the hunt for my grandmother Ruth Stratton's marriage or divorce record from Mr. Buzzell. I received a No Record Found statement from the Department of Health. They have referred me to the clerk of the Massachusetts Archives. Fortunately, I was provided with a phone number so I will call tomorrow and see what is required.

On the graveyard service project. I have begun to research the families in the graveyard. Many of them were born into slavery and achieved freedom as an adult or early childhood. NewFamilySearch indicates that some of the names have been entered through Extraction work. I am entering in the other names for temple work. We will pass these names on to the youth so that they can do the baptisms before cleaning the cemetery. How wonderful to serve these people in so many ways! In my research I am learing about thier family and their lives. I am very touched. One night I had to stop my research because it became too emotional to go on. We are so blessed to live at a time and in a place where we can be free.

I will post photos of the graveyard soon.

In search of graveyards...

2010-04-21T11:34:00.002-04:00

The Bishop has asked me to locate a graveyard that is in need of repair. The youth for Youth Conference will fix the graveyard up nicely for their Youth Conference service project. I think this is awesome!

I'm off to find some cool Civil War gravesites!

Family History on Hold...

2010-04-20T14:03:00.002-04:00

for a few days, anyway. Other things in life must be tended to.

Currently I am teaching homeschool middle and high schoolers Sir Gawain and the Green Knight. Today we hit the half way mark on the class. These kids are so bright I have to keep on my toes!

I have been asked, also to speak at the LDS East Coast conference and teach homeschool parents how to teach Shakespeare. This is a challenge! I'll keep you posted. I also have an hour long Drama class to teach the kids attending the conference.

Gaby is in full swing of 7am swim team, three times a week. She is also on a soccer team which her father coaches.

Alec is on hiatus from a sport, but he better find one soon or he will have to get a job. (Ha! He prefers the job!)

Ken is still building our deck.

Well, that is the news for now.

Vital Statistics

2010-04-17T16:49:00.002-04:00

Today I sent out requests for the marriage or divorce certificate for my grandmother Ruth Cleveland Holmes and her first husband --- Buzzell. She is listed in the 1920 census under her maiden name but as married. She is enumerated with her mother and step-father, but states that she is a "cousin." I wonder if she is hiding from her husband.

I also sent away for Vickie Sue's birth certificate from Texas. This document should give me the birth date and location of her mother, whose name I already know.

Two visits to the temple this week helped me to seal my family together and to do more work for ancestors and an aunt who was my great grandfather Wilson's sister. What a great feeling I have doing this sacred work. Four sisters from my ward assisted in doing some of these names today. Two sister from another ward assisted on Thursday in the sealings. We are moving right along!

New Discoveries and Surprises -- some not so expected.

2010-04-16T13:07:00.003-04:00

About a month ago, I began to focus my attention to the Stratton line of my family history. With the recent death of my father (October 14, 2009), I wanted to turn my attention to his family. I had wanted to seal my father to his father, Rolland Aubrey Stratton, whose temple work had already been done. I learned that even though my father was a member of the church, and his father's work was done, there is still the mandatory year wait before sealing them to each other. Yesterday I asked President Tinghy of the Washington, DC temple why that was so. He said that without the year wait, people would be rushing names through and there could be errors. I knew he had a point. Recently a friend of mine said she noticed that someone had done her ex-husband's temple work. Problem is, he is still alive!

So, setting the temple work aside for now, I decided to address the issue of my father's mother, who, rumour has it, was married before she married my grandfather. She had four children in this marriage, but for reasons unknown, left her entire family. Even though she remarried, her ex-husband still carried a torch for her and would send flowers on the anniversary of their marriage. The problem is, I can't find her first marriage or her first set of children. (When she remarried she had four more children, the eldest being my father.) While looking for her divorce records, I came across her divorce from my grandfather. Next to the divorce record in Ancestry.com, was my grandfather's new marriage record. I now had a maiden name for his second wife. So as not to confuse you before carrying on, here is what we know so far:

My grandmother: Ruth Cleveland Holmes
Married: Unknown first name Buzzell
Where: we can only guess Massachusetts at this time and around 1915
Divorced.
Four children from this marriage. Twin boys who died between ages 4-6. And two daugthers.
Remarries my grandfather: Rolland Aubrey Stratton
Where: Massachusetts
Divorced.
Four children from this marriage. My dad, my aunt, and twin boys.
Never marries again.

My grandfather: Rolland Aubrey Stratton
Divorces my grandmother, Ruth, in Florida and immediately marries a younger woman whose name is Bessie Virginia Campbell. (I learned via his death certificate that this marriage also ended in divorce.)

So, now you are caught up. I knew that Rolland and Bessie had one daughter named Vickie. We were introduced to her once, when I was 2 and a half years old. We never saw her or my granddad again. Vickie was 15 years old at the time. Well, since my father recently died, I thought it would be the right thing to do to let her know her brother had passed on. I hoped that by getting in touch with her, she could tell me a bit about her father, my grandfather.

I knew that Vickie lived in High Point or Greensborough, NC, and whitepages.com led me right to her address. Great! I have a place to write to. I went to ancestry.com to see if there were any records that showed more information about my grandfather and her mother. I got a shock. When I added Vickie to her parents' family tree, I got a shaking leaf. That is ancestry's way of letting you know there is available information on that person. When I clicked on the leaf I was brought to Vickie's Social Security Death Record. My dad's youngest sister died 30 January 2010. Just months ago at the age of 53!

Further snooping around on ancestry.com brought up an obituary of yet another child! Vickie had a sister! Sadly, the child died at the age of two days. I found and lost two aunts instantaneously.

The search for Vickie has not ended yet. I sent a letter to her address, addressed to the men who were apparently rooming with her. The letter came back unknown and undeliverable. On facebook I sent a message to a man who had the same name as one of her husbands. (The first one died in a motorcycle accident.) The man was sorry, but he was not the person I was seeking.

Ancestry wants $90 for her death certificate. No way. By writing the North Carolina Office of Vital Records, I can get the same certificate for $24.

So, family research, even recent history, brings out information that is new to everyone.

A New Direction

2010-04-13T13:07:00.003-04:00

Last May, my family and I (along with some friends) took a trek out to Kirtland, Ohio to do some LDS history site seeing. While there, a burning desire to do the work for my ancestors came upon me. I returned home with a new conviction to follow through with my genealogy (which I, along with my parents had been doing for 35 plus years), take these ancestors through the temple, and create a bound book that would be passed down generations to come so that my posterity would not lose sight of from whence they came. I placed myself on a two year genealogical mission which is now coming to the end of the first year.

I began with photographs. My maternal grandmother, Eleanor Katherine Wilson Watts, aka Grandma Kay, passed away May of 2008. She left behind trunks of letters and photographs. My Aunt Linda Kistner Brown has the majority of them, but some she scanned and passed on via email to myself and other relatives. Some pictures I inherited from my own mother, Ginger Kathryn Watts Stratton, who passed away June 6, 2009.

I spent the entire summer locating people via the internet who might be able to identify some of the folks in the old photographs. Some we were able to identify, but there remain a few we have no clue about. There are some photographs that are labled with names, but none that appeared to be direct relatives. I reached out via ancestry.com to descendants of these individuals. I passed the photos along to them (for which they were thrilled) and was able to learn that these people indeed are related to me via marriage. These photographs I write about at this time refer to the Windham family line. I relate to this line via this way:

Me: Laurie Ann (Melyssa Scarlett) Hughes Stratton Webb
Mother: Ginger Kathryn Watts Stratton
Maternal Grandmother: Eleanor Katherine Wilson Watts
Maternal Great Grandmother: Ollie Ossilean Posey Wilson
Maternal 2nd Great Grandmother: Mary Julia Windham Posey

Staying on the subject of photographs, but moving to my mother's father's line. My grandfather Franklin Edward Watts recently moved to Manassas, Virginia, where I live. He loaned me 4 photo albums of ancestral photos. From these (which I scanned) I was able to finally put a face to my 2nd great up to 4th great grandparents.

So, now that I have pictures scanned (and framed collages of many of them), I can move on to interviews and data collection. My grandfather's cousin mailed to me copies of all the letters their father wrote and received from his mother (my second great grandmother). I am about to transcribe them so that they can be shared with other family members.

This past Sunday I began to video interview my grandfather. My granddad is going to be 94 years old this July 25th. He is clear minded and remembers quite a bit of his childhood and about his grandparents (my 2nd greats). It would be a crying shame not to ask him about his people. When our ancestors pass on, so much of their history passes with them.

The reason I decided to change the focus of this blog is because I have had so many wonderful genealogical experiences happen in the past two months. They are happening in such rapid succession, that if I don't catalogue them, that too will be lost. You may find that I enter several entries a day, as I catch up on the recent past, or may go a week or so as my research takes up time.

I thank my Heavenly Father for the gift of research and the spirit of Elijah who touches my soul every day urging me forward in collecting the history of my ancestors.

Lettering in Sports

2010-03-02T21:59:00.002-05:00

Just wanted to take time to announce that Alec lettered in Swimming tonight! We are so proud of him. Way to go son!

Coming soon! Chickens!!!

2010-02-24T19:24:00.002-05:00

In the next few weeks we will be the parents of Chickens. As part of our homeschool experience we have decided to learn about nature and animals. We also want to get a goat out in our woods to clear up the sumac. Haven't decided if we will borrow one (Dave and Emma!) or buy one and when we are done donate it to the Webbsixpointsranch.

The past three weeks have been bad medically. For two weeks I slept 14-20 hours a day. I saw a doctor and got my meds regulated, so I am doing better. I've been up for full days since Sunday. Yay me!

Gaby started babysitting and is bringing in some good money now. Hmmm... maybe I should start charging her rent. She took the Red Cross Babysitting class and got certified last month. She is excited to have some financial independence. I'm glad, too!

Not a lot is going on here. Hope our family and friends are doing well. Oh! And we're due another 5 inches of snow tonight. Oh joy!

Snow Update

2010-02-08T19:39:00.002-05:00

We received just under 3 feet of snow at our home. We are expecting 20 more inches tomorrow. We are doing well with food and supplies. Many of our friends were without power, but since we live in the city limits, we were fine.

We are VERY sore from all the shoveling. We do not own a snow blower and do notice that our neighbours who have snow blowers love to stand by and watch us remove snow the old fashioned way. Not only do we have our drive and walk to do, but our next door neighbour as well. It is a good work out -- at least that is what we keep telling ourselves.

Lessons learned on this round? If you buy a snowblower... it might stop snowing. But then, where would I store it? We went through 2 shovels due to the weight of the snow. Ken is off buying more. So! Shovels and generator are on our list of necessities! (Though we won't by the generator at this time. Even if we could find one, I'm sure the price is through the roof!)

This is a Test. This is Only a Test.

2010-02-05T11:48:00.008-05:00

How grateful I am for a living prophet who guides us. But what use is it to have a prophet if we don't listen to him? It would be as if we had no prophet at all. Today, I am grateful our family has chosen to heed the words of not just this prophet, but prophets past.

Here in Manassas we have been having, shall we say, unseasonably snowy weather. Sure, it is winter, and our hardest (or rather coldest months) are in January and February. But it is rare for us to get snow, much less two feet of snow, and even rarer repeated snow storms. But this is a test. This is only a test.

If this had been a true emergency, we would have had no warning. There would be no four week break between bouts of snow storms. During the last storm we took stock of what we needed and what we should have stored up on. Hmmmm... nothing comes to mind. You see, we have been asked to have food storage. 72 hours kits have been suggested. Medications refilled. This is only a test. Did we manage those.... uh, three days...? Were we prepared? YES!

Now we have 2 feet of snow that is due to dump upon us tonight with more to come on Tuesday. We took an inventory of our supplies, our food, our blankets, our meds, our games, etc. We are prepared. (Even so, I would have prefered to have followed the prompting to buy a generator. But remember, this is only a test!)

We have been told by newscasters that we can expect to be snowed in for 6 days. (Double the time of last month.) Again, we took stock of our supplies, food storage, clothing, blankets, games etc. We are prepared. No need to go to the store. But come on! How can one resist?

Yesterday I went to check out the mania of Manassas. It is kind of like Black Friday. Ken and I go each year. We never need to buy anything. Don't want to. Oh but the FUN of watching people go insane!

I drove first to Giant shopping center. Understand that normally you can get a parking spot 10 spaces in or less. The entire lot was full. I didn't bother entering the store. I drove next to Bloom around the corner. It is a smaller store with less parking than Giant. It wasn't packed, but business was steady enough for each line to be four customers deep. I decided that since I was there I would check out the aisles. Holy moly! Bread nearly gone. Canned foods flying off the shelves. I didn't need anything, but hey, since I'm here.... I stocked up on junk food. You need plenty of popcorn, IBC Rootbeer and IBC Cream soda, and chocolate to see you through 6 days with kids in the house! And it was fun to clog up the check out line for people who really had to have that beer for this Sunday. But this is only a test.

I have often thought that these moments of crises or emergency is really just a test. A test to see if we are listening to the words of the prophet. Most of what we might forget during these snow storms might be minor inconveniences. But what if this had not been a test? Surely times are going to get harder, storms are going to rage and there will come a time when 6 days will turn into 6 weeks or longer.

This is truly a test. A time in which we can try out our food storage. A time in which we can check on those food storage items, flashlights, emergency flares, blankets, sleeping bags and whatever we could possibly need should this have been a real emergency. So while I hate howling winds, snowy days, and flooding basements, I am grateful for these tests. It is tests such as these that help us prepare for the latter days to come in which we truly will need to be self reliant.

I bear testimony to you that it is a greater position to be in to stand by and watch chaos than to be a part of it. It also affords us the opportunity to be of service to others during these time because our needs are already met. How grateful I am for a prophet who loves us and for the guidance he sends from the Father. And though I hate snow.... I'm glad it's only a test.

Happy New Year, Ground Hog Day and whatever you choose it to be!

2010-02-04T12:40:00.002-05:00

I don't post much on the blog because, well... I've nothing to say, I guess. I read other blogs and see all that is going on and I just can't compete. We're boring here at the Webb house.

There are no Christmas pictures, not that there were many to begin with... I think four. Gaby accidentally deleted them off the camera. It was just pics of the kids coming down the stairs. Webb tradition and all. :)

My New Year's Resolution last year was to lose 25 lbs and read 52 books (one book a week). Well, for obvious reasons, I was unable to read that much, but I think I did rather well in losing 14 lbs and reading 35 books. This year my resolution remains the same and so far I am over my book a week goal. Yay me! I may do a blog post about the books I found great last year and what I am reading this year.

Ken's birthday was fun. We bought him two camping chairs, a Red Cross light/radio/cell phone charger. We went to Red Lobster for dinner and all of us were so tired we basically slept through the meal and just went home. Poor Ken.

We've had more than our fair share of snow this year. Two feet followed by ice storms and then more and more inches. I don't really keep track of the stuff. I do know we have two feet coming in tomorrow and then more next week. I'm thinking of moving.

I have been spending far too much time hiding in bed and not having the ability to get up and face the day. To battle this depression I decided to do service. I've been making meals for families in need and with Gaby, we've been delivering them and other treats, as well as snowing driveways or delivering gifts. It lifts my spirits to help others out, especially at a time when many people are losing thier jobs. I don't have much to give, but I'll give what I've got. The Lord says to lose yourself in Service, so I'm trying to take him up on that challenge. Still.... I spent most of this week hiding under the covers crying. How pathetic! You would think one would eventually run dry of tears.

We are truly blessed to have a wonderful house to live in, cars that are paid for, several months of food storage to rely on (and we do!), games to entertain us, friends to laugh and cry with, a true religion to learn from, and an eternal family to cling to.

I've been going to the temple quite a bit to do work and once even to clean! If you haven't cleaned the temple before, I urge you to volunteer next time. It is a great experience. I have had so many marvelous temple experiences in the last year. I cannot write about them here, but they are experiences I will never forget and have helped me a lot in growing as a Latter-Day Saint in tumultuous times.

The kids are doing well. Alec's Eagle Scout project is being nominated on the national level for something or other that the BSA is doing to promote scouting in the nation. As I learn more, we'll keep you posted. He finished everything for his Eagle and is now in the final interview process. Can't wait till we can do a court of honor and be done! Neither can he.

My 93 year old granddad is living out here now. I spend quite a bit of time taking him places and doing odds and ends for him. I am so blessed to still have him in my life. I enjoy being with him and hearing his stories of the 1930s.

Well, that is the Webb news. Not a lot, but thought I should post something since it's been over a month. Happy New Year! God Bless!

Snow What?

2009-12-30T15:58:00.003-05:00

Thanksgiving 2009

2009-12-30T15:21:00.005-05:00

It was a quiet Thanksgiving celebration this year. As well, it should have been. With everything we have been through this year, we have so much to be thankful for.

I am so grateful for my two wonderful children. Every day I wake, I thank my Heavenly Father for sending them into my life. I hug and kiss my kids so many times each day they beg for me to stop. I want them to never forget that they come from a family of love.

I am so grateful for my dear husband who works hard to support our family. This economy has hit everyone and we are no exception. Every day Ken goes in to the office we are grateful that he has an office to go to. It is our hope that we will continue to be blessed in this way.

We are so grateful for the gospel! How blessed we are to belong to the true church of Jesus Christ! How wonderful to be a part of the restored gospel that is the one and same as the church established by the Lord when he was here on Earth. I am grateful for callings that keep us active and for kids who enjoy going to Seminary and Sunday School. I am truly blessed! I am blessed to have two priesthood holders in my home. Oh what a comfort this blessing brings!

I am grateful for friends and family who have sacrificed their time to be with me and listen and grieve with me this past year, no matter the hour of the day or night. This has been the greatest of blessings. It is amazing how quickly people run away from those grieving for fear of saying something wrong. I am grateful for those who took seriously the scripture that admonishes: Where were you when I was hungry? Grieving? etc (literary license here) How grateful I am for those who cried with me. Emailed me nearly every day. Talked to me at late night hours. I am grateful!

Here are a few pictures of our Thanksgiving Day. We enjoyed a quiet meal, took a walk by the pond, visited with my Granddad, Aunt and Cousins, and closed the day out with a movie.

In Memorium

2009-12-11T18:41:00.005-05:00

It has been six months since my mother died and two months since my dad died. I’ve had weeks, if not months to think about what I would say should there be a memorial service. I’ll be honest with you. I haven’t been able to come up with anything poetic or profound. I’ve never in my life been at a loss for words, but today I am.

When I think back on June 6th of this year, I think about how the day began. My husband and son were off at an Eagle Scout interview, while Gaby and I were home alone. I was in the kitchen doing chores and Gaby was playing the piano. I remember thinking how the moment reminded me of my childhood when I would hear my mother playing the piano while I was elsewhere in the house. The sounds brought to me peace and happiness. At that moment I felt that same peace and happiness. And then the phone call came. A call none of us had expected. My mother had died. There was no warning. No inkling of an idea. And all in one moment my world shattered.

I spent the following months dedicated to the care and wellbeing of my father. He was so grief stricken he was all but incapacitated. He could function enough to do mundane repetitious chores, such as laundry or shopping, but the life in him was gone. He died the day my mother died. And sadly, four months after her death, he joined her. And the sorrow I felt on June 6th was compounded. Those little shards of my life that I had managed to piece together after mom died, well, they fell apart. And I felt as though the world could swallow me whole and I wouldn’t care. But the reality is that this is not how life works. Life goes on long after those we love have crossed over into heaven.

I was raised LDS, also known as Mormon. We believe in God the eternal father, in Jesus Christ, and in the Holy Ghost. We believe that we were placed here on earth to obtain a body, to prove our love to God through obedience to the gospel, and through the atonement are able to return to heaven to live with him. We believe Families are Forever. It is that belief that I have held onto with all my might, mind and strength this past year.

When mom died, I awoke the next morning and in my mind I could hear the following hymn in my head as though it was being sung by a choir:

God be with you till we meet again; By his counsels guide, uphold you, With his sheep securely fold you; God be with you till we meet again. Till we meet, till we meet, till we meet at Jesus feet. Till we meet, till we meet, God be with you till we meet again.

And as I heard this hymn being played over and over in my heart and mind throughout the day, I felt an affirmation that my mother was well and that I would see her again in the next life.

To share with you memories of my mother would be to recall senses and not events in particular. My mother was the smell of ivory soap, tide detergent and snuggle fabric softener. She was laughter everywhere. She was sunshine in the morning as she opened my curtains to wake me up. She was back scratches and tight hugs. She was funny poems and silly songs. She was Chubby Checker and the Twist. She was old black and white movies. She was Scarlet O’Hara and Kate Hepburn. She was beautiful. She was talented. And she was my mother. I am so blessed to be able to say that. If it is true that we chose our family members in the pre-existence, then I am truly happy that we chose one another as family. There were times when our roles reversed and I was more the mother and she more the daughter. She was frightened of people at times. She hated confrontation. I would be her front man. I protected her. But there were times she was the lioness protecting her cub when I was ill or being taken advantage of by others trying to get one over on me. I know she loved me. I can still hear her voice in my own at times. We share the same silly laugh. I hear her whispering to me little directives during the day on how to do a chore a certain way or other. I sometimes can even smell her. Maybe it is my mind doing all these things. Maybe not. I like to believe she is still here with me.

My father entered into my life when I was 3 years old. He does not resonate in me through sound or smell. We shared a very different relationship. He was very much the authoritarian. He was extremely intelligent, very dictatorial and stoic. He was rough around the edges. You either loved him or hated him. There was never any in between. But I knew a side of him that very few people saw, except perhaps my mother. Once, when I was a teenager, my father quit drinking for a year. During that year there was happiness in our home. There was peace. I could see a sparkle in my father’s eyes and a real kindness. He allowed his feelings to show that particular year that he normally kept hidden deep inside. I remember thinking, “This is how God sees my dad.” He knows his real inner self and for one brief moment we’ve been allowed to see it too. I am grateful for that year. Because of it I have never looked at my father the same way again. Oh, I’ve had my hard times with him and disappointments. I won’t deny that. But I loved him. I do love him. He was my dad. And in the sorrowful months following my mother’s death, he became my friend. He held so much pain inside of him, I just wanted to reach in and take it all away. I wanted to protect him. I just didn’t know how. All I could do was to be there for him and cry with him. Listen to him. He was my friend and I loved him.

I could list the accomplishments that my parents made in their lives, and that list would be long; however, I feel that somehow had they been given longer to live, that list would have continued to grow. They were forever learning and trying new things. They had a passion for education, books and travel. They had a passion for each other that over shadowed everything around them. I know they are continuing to learn and grow together as they continue their journey in heaven. There is a season for all things, and their season here on Earth has for me, sadly come to an end.

Thanksgiving week, Daniel and I took the ashes of our parents to Plymouth, Massachusetts, where we scattered them on a private beach near our childhood home. There had been a nor’easter earlier in the week, and it continued after we left. However, while we were there, the sun shone, the temperature was in the 50s or 60s and the sky was clear. We arrived in Plymouth to a crowd gathered for the Thanksgiving parade. Dan and I had not even thought that this might be going on. We knew we would have to wait for the parade to end before we could get down to the beach and carry out our parents’ last wishes. The parade changed everything. What could have been a very sad and somber day, turned into a celebration. Mom loved parades and would have loved this one. She loved Plymouth. She loved Thanksgiving. I could just feel that this parade would have tickled her. I was happy to see a couple of bands of bagpipers come by playing the traditional tunes. I had thought of bringing my bagpipes to play on the beach when we scattered the ashes, but thought “Who am I kidding? I haven’t played in years. It would have sounded like a cat with its tail being pulled.” So I was pleased that daddy got his pipers after all.

The parade ended. We went down to the beach. Hardly anyone was there. We said a prayer and scattered the ashes into Plymouth bay. When we were done, I notice an older couple sitting on the rocks not far from us, holding hands and just looking out at the water. They didn’t look anything like my parents, but their attitude and demeanor was like that of my folks. Happy. In love. And together enjoying the moment. We spent the day in Plymouth, but before leaving to head home, we decided to go back one last time to the beach to say good-bye. We arrived to find that a few feet away from where we had laid our parents to rest was a young bridal couple having their wedding pictures taken. The sun was setting, the bride was beautiful and I thought to myself, “This is how it should be. Life goes on.” And it does.

I miss my parents terribly. And there isn’t a day or night that goes by that I don’t think about them, talk to them or say a prayer for them. But for now I will close with this thought: May God be with them till we meet again.

Brothers and Sisters Reunite After 37 Years!

2009-10-09T12:11:00.005-04:00

After 37 years, the Strattons finall were able to reunite. We had all visited each other individually, but have not been in the same place at the same time since 1971. We had a wonderful time sharing memories and catching up.

I love my brothers and sister. I also really love Jolene and Joanne. We are so lucky to have these two women in our lives.

We have decided to begin a new tradition and hold annual family reunions. I am looking forward to the next one in July 2010. See you there!

Sag Harbor Sag Harbor

Daniel, Melyssa, Geoffrey, Meda, Dean Stratton.

Geoff and Gaby in Montauk

Dean, Geoff, Melyssa and Dan in Montauk.

Montauk

Alec and Geoff

Neil and Amy's Wedding in Bryant Park, New York City, New York.

2009-10-09T11:35:00.007-04:00

The first pictures are of the Wedding Rehearsal Dinner. It was the first time many of us had seen each other in nearly a decade.

Geoff, Alec, Jolene (Geoff's wife), and Ken.Ken, Meda and MelyssaAmy presenting Gaby with diamond and gold earrings for the wedding for being her Junior Maid of Honor/Flower Girl.Geoff and Dean cutting up.Geoff and Dean.Phil (friend and in wedding party) Matt (brother and best man to groom), Neil (groom) and Amy (bride).Emily with Aunt Jo-Jo and Gaby.Melyssa and Dan with Geoff and Alec in background.

Neil, Matt and Phil

Gaby and Emily
Amy and her father

Amy and Neil taking their vows.

Amy and Neil Stratton dancing their first dance as a married couple.

Chinese Dragon performance.

Best wishes and eternal happiness to Amy and Neil. Welcome, Amy, to our family. We love you!

Gaby's Soccer Game!

2009-10-09T10:50:00.002-04:00

It is a new year and a new sport for Gaby. As you know, she competed in Gymnastics for many years. This year she decided to give up the beam and the bars for the ball... the soccer ball that is!

Here are some highlights from her last game.

Alec's Back to School Party

2009-10-09T10:38:00.003-04:00

Alec wanted to send David (his BFF) and himself off to school with a party shared with his homeschool buddies (and a few girls thrown in for good measure!). He planned the party, organized it and threw it all on his own. He and his friends had a wonderful time. Here are a few highlights.

Jimmy Buffett!!!!

2009-10-09T10:19:00.003-04:00

Ken and I had the opportunity to attend the Jimmy Buffett concert in Bristow, VA this summer. It was a great concert and a wonderful way to end the summer. Yes! We know we are OLD!!!!!

Melyssa and Ken with Cousin Lynn and Terry.

Happy Birthday Gaby!!!

2009-10-09T09:57:00.003-04:00

We are so blessed to have Gaby in our home. She has brought us laughter and joy. Gaby has a serious side to her and is very direct in her manner and speech when she feels anyone has been treated unjustly. She is our Liahona at times and reminds us often that to choose the right is the best option in life. We are so blessed to have her!

Gaby has recently celebrated her 11th birthday. She has returned to homeschooling and will be continuing her education at home until her Freshman year in high school. I look forward to those wonderful bonding moments that Alec and I shared during our years together at home. A continuance of childhood that society is so ready to snatch away.

As you may know, Gaby was active in gymnastics for over 6 years. This year she decided to play soccer, and I will post pictures of her game in a subsequent entry.

We are so grateful for the day that Gaby entered our lives and again when we were sealed to her the following year. We love you Gaby and thank Heavenly Father every day for blessing us with you in our lives!!!

Happy Birthday baby!!!!

First Day of School

2009-10-09T09:43:00.004-04:00

After 3 years of homeschooling, Alec returned to public school. He is now a Freshman at Osbourne High School. With starting high school comes the joy of rising at 5am to attend early morning Seminary. He loves it!

Below are pictures of the dreary first day of school.

Of course, Gaby had her NOT BACK TO SCHOOL celebration that same day at Signal Hill Park. Here she is that evening trying on clothes given to her by her cousin Allie.

To Post or Not to Post ... that is the question

2009-09-14T13:25:00.003-04:00

With all the sadness that is going on in my family now, I am inclined not to post updates. But since we don't get to talk to anyone on the phone --- for whatever reasons, I guess the only way to keep family updated is via this blog.

Mother has been gone three months now. I'm guessing people figure I would be over it by now and moving on. Not so easy. It is definitely not easy when I am still taking care of dad and granddad who are greiving greatly. Granddad is moving here to Manassas in October. While he won't be living with me, he will be alone during the days. Since I am the "at home" relative, I will be spending time with him during the day so he isn't so lonely. I am happy to do it, but it will add to my already busy schedule of homeschooling and running a house. I'm sure a routine will work out soon enough.

My father is not doing well, and we suspect he won't last the month. I have been regularly traveling to North Carolina to be with him and settle his affairs. It is very draining and depressing on me. No, there are no other relatives or siblings who can or are willing to help. I just returned from NC where I spent two days going through more of mother's clothes, letters and pictures. It is a daunting task. I feel this darkness will not end any time soon.

On a brighter note, the kids are well and thriving. Ken is doing great and working hard. We are still in Manassas and at the same phone number if anyone would like to stop by or call. I cannot guarantee that I will be here -- due to my trips south -- but Ken and the kids always are and would love the visits.

Sorry for the morbid update, but I'm thinking that is about how it will be for several months coming.

Summer's End

2009-09-03T08:23:00.005-04:00

What a crazy summer we had. While we started off in an unexpected way, and life has been very different, there were some great times squeezed in here and there.

This summer was one of growing. Alec is now over 5' 8" and weighing in at .... well, a lot! He has been extremely active in biking and swimming and is hoping Osbourn High School will accept him on the swim team this year.

Alec attended Goshen for a final summer of merit badge work. He is now in Venture Scouts and loving it. He and his dad went shooting with the Ventures on Saturday. Ken recoiled into his own head and is sporting a pretty nasty cut. Alec also worked on his Eagle project and made the front page of two newspapers that we know of. Pretty cool if you ask me. He has finally finished the Eagle report and now is in the process of gathering approval signatures. Yay, Alec! Alec also held a steady volunteer job at Bull Run Regional Library. Every Thursday throughout the summer, Alec worked 2 hours for the library. This is a job he sought out on his own after having really enjoying it last year. Alec also took a Stop Motion film class this summer as well as Radio Broadcasting school. He is now a certified Radio Producer. (Scroll down to older posts to check out pics and info.)

Another change occurred in Alec's life. He has chosen to begin High School in a public school setting. Today he headed off in the early hours to attend the orientation day. He is in all Honors classes and is looking forward to finding out what electives he will be permitted to take. Seminary kicks off next Tuesday when school officially starts. Our life will be early to bed and early to rise. I hope the old adage rings true and that we will become healthy, wealthy and wise!

Gabrielle kept busy this summer as well. She spent a fun week on the Chesapeake Bay at Camp Silverbeach. She loved the freedom of being away from home and enjoying camp life. She decided not to return to gymnastics after her hiatus, but instead has joined the local Girls Soccer team. Her first practice was a success and she is thrilled with her decision. She is talking traveling team already, but I say SLOW down! I'm just now getting over all the gymnastics travel!

Gabrielle will be homeschooled this year and is looking forward to attending mom's Shakespeare classes as well as the American Statesman classes. It will be great to have mom/daughter time for a year with no icky boys! (Sorry guys!)

Both kids remain active in piano.

With Alec sporting new hours, Ken has changed his work schedule. He heads out at 5:30 every morning and gets home about 4:30. We love it! It is so great to have dad home playing ball in the front yard or grilling out on the deck. He even hops on the mower now and again and does the lawn with Alec. (Yes, Nanny and Papa, it is hard to believe, I know! I nearly had a coronary when I saw it!) Ken has a new calling in church -- Secretary in the YM's presidency. He's also hanging out with Alec a lot more and attending Youth night on Tuesdays. I love seeing the bonding between them that is growing ever strong. What great memories they are creating.

I have been extremely busy this summer. My trips back and forth to NC have been frequent enough that I have lost count. In fact, I am heading back next week. The loss of my mother has been great, but I have tried to focus on the legacy she has left behind which is her children and grandchildren. I think of her daily and strive to press forward doing all that I can to be a faithful Latter-Day Saint woman and mother.

I have had some sweet moments this summer, thanks to my friends. For my birthday, my girls took me out for the entire day. I was treated to a pedicure and then lunch, followed by movies and then a dinner date with more friends. It was a never ending day of Melyssa. Wow. We all need pampered days like that. I cannot remember ever having such a great day -- in a long time anyway!

I also was whisked away by my girls for a couple nights at the Lake House in Lake Anna which my friend owns. Just a bunch of us girls -- I think there were 9 of us! It was wonderful to get away from the daily grind of chores and obligations.

Last week, the family and I stole away into the Shenandoah mountains where we met up with several families from our ward for a night of camping. It has been 12 years since I've camped in the Shenandoahs. It was lovely!

(And TREK! We mustn't forget Trek. If you missed the pictures, scroll down a few blog entries.)

I have had other friends who have just been there for me and listened while I rambled on about the struggles of life during this summer and my new responsibilities. Life is definitely different now and many changes are taking place, but it is always important to remember that we are here so that we can go HOME! This has definitely been a year in which I have truly embraced my religion and belief system. There is no greater love than that in the gospel. So, yes, I am grieving and probably will for quite some time, but I am not so mired down in that grief to be blind to the wonderful gifts I have in this life. I am truly blessed!

Camp Silver Beach, Chesapeake, VA

2009-08-10T17:30:00.004-04:00

Thanks to PNC for donating $500 to Gaby for summer camp this year. We had entered in a drawing back in early Spring when the camps had an expo at the mall. If PNC had not donated the majority of the tuition, Gaby would not have been able to attend such a great camp. Thanks PNC! And THANK YOU to all the family and friends who sent Gaby emails. It made mail call special for her. She had a wonderful time. Thanks everyone!

Trek!!!

2009-08-10T16:23:00.007-04:00

I have been looking forward to TREK since Ken's parents went on one (two? three?) back in the early 1990s, so I was thrilled when we were asked to be a Ma and Pa on the Centreville Stake Trek this summer.

Early August in Virginia is literally the DOG DAYS of SUMMER! Hot, Humid, Wet! If you have lived here, you know what I mean.

This trip was fantastic. We were "parents" of 10 children who all adored us (wink wink), and we adored them! Seriously, they were great kids and we had no problems at all. Sleeping on the ground was "hard" and I certainly came home with some big bruises. We loved dutch oven cooking! I have a new interest and am going to continue to add to my recipe list of meals to cook in a dutch oven.

This trip was NOT a reenactment of the original trek west, but was an opportunity for us to come closer to our Heavenly Father and have an appreciation for what our pioneer ancestors went through and their sacrifices.

I love opportunities that allow us to grow closer to Heavenly Father and each other.

Below are several pictures from Trek. Enjoy!

Channel 10 Radio/TV

2009-08-10T14:56:00.004-04:00

This past Winter/Spring, our homeschool group took a tour of the Fairfax Radio/Television station Channel 10. Here are some pictures from that tour. Alec was so entralled by the visit, he has decided to become a radio producer and begins his training this Friday in Fairfax with Channel 10. By the end of his course, he will be a certified Radio producer and will have the opportunity to host his own show and air it, if he so chooses. What a great opportunity!

By Their Works Ye Shall Know Them

2009-08-04T11:04:00.001-04:00

My Sacrament Talk in July.
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Does anyone remember that you passed his way?
Does anyone remember that you spoke to him today?
The day is almost over and its toiling time is through,
Is there anyone to utter now a kindly word of you?

Can you say “Good-night” in parting with a day that’s slipping fast?
Did you help a single brother of the many that you past?
Is a single heart rejoicing over what you did or said?
Is the man’s whose hopes were fading
Now with courage look ahead?

Did you waste the day or lose it?
Was it well or sorely spent?
Did you leave a trail of kindness
Or a scar of discontent?

As you close your eyes in slumber,
Do you think that God will say,
“You have earned one more tomorrow
By the work you did today?”

Good morning brothers and sisters. I was invited to talk to you today on the theme “By Their Works You Shall Know Them.”

The word “Works” takes on a variety of connotations. It can mean works of writing such as the works of Shakespeare or C. S. Lewis. It can mean “works of art” like that of Michael Angelo or Degas. But it can also mean “Action.” In particular what action has been taken or not taken. As in, “The boy who does my lawn does good work.” Or, “I’ve seen his work and I’m not impressed.” Whatever definition you choose to apply, the term “work” leaves an image or a mark that others use as a form of judgment or acknowledgment whichever the case may be.

When I was 20 years old, I entered into the United States Air Force. One of the very first things that happens upon entering the military is what is called a shake down. All your possessions are dumped onto your bed for inspection (and sometimes ridicule). I was the first in the second line of bunks to be inspected. Having watched the other Airmen go through this process I became nervous and not quite sure what would be chosen out of my duffle bag to be mocked and raised up for others to see. Two sergeants approached my bunk and as instructed I emptied all my belongings onto the bed. One of the sergeants reached out and picked up a pocket sized Book of Mormon that I had brought with me. He looked at it for a brief moment and said, “There is no need to search her belongings.” Handing the book back to me, he, along with the other sergeant, walked on to the next airman in line and continued their inspection.

Now I had done nothing to merit their respect or trust. I merely had a book with me that indicated that I was a member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints. Surely faithful LDS members before me laid the foundation of trust that this sergeant was basing his judgment on.

So the question we must ask ourselves is “What foundation are we laying out before us?”

It is not enough to carry the scriptures with us in our duffle bag, it is required of us to carry it in our hearts and minds and in our actions. We must study the scriptures and know them well. If this life truly is our final test, then shouldn’t we be studying for this, our final exam?

Many of us are familiar with the old 1980s commercial where a man in a white coat says, “I’m not a real doctor, but I play one on tv” and then goes on to advise us which over the counter medication we should take for our ailments. Would we choose this doctor to give us medical advice on serious illnesses or the doctor who diligently studied for his exams, practiced for his exams and took those exams seriously? It’s a ridiculous question to ask. We all know the answer. We would choose the man who was clearly qualified to help us. And so it should be with our celestial welfare. We must acquire a knowledge of God’s eternal plan and our role in it. And then we need to submit our will to the will of the Lord. It is He who is the foundation on which we can stand. And when we submit to the will of the Lord, it is He who qualifies us to spread his gospel and do his will. And by our works, they shall know us.

The Lord refers to his people as those who love and keep his commandments. The scriptures refer to these people as Saints. In Matthew 7:20 we read how the Saviour refers to his followers: Wherefore by their fruits ye shall know them.

Our works are our fruit. It would make sense then to say that we are the plant. However, a plant cannot bear fruit unless that plant has roots. Therefore how can we produce fruit of the gospel if we do not plant our spiritual roots deep into celestial soil? We need a foundation to stand on to help keep us from temptation. Let’s turn to 2 Nephi 32:9. It reads: But behold, I say unto you that ye must pray always, and not faint; that ye must not perform any thing unto the Lord save in the first place ye shall pray unto the Father in the name of Christ, that he will consecrate thy performance unto thee, that thy performance may be for the welfare of thy soul.

So we are commanded to Pray First. Let us ponder for a moment those activities in which we pray before performing. We pray before each Sunday meeting. We pray before meals. We pray at the beginning and close of each day. Think of the spirit of those activities which have begun in prayer. Our hearts are touched during sacrament, Sunday school and Relief Society. We close meetings praying that we will travel in safety. I once went to a food storage truck delivery in which a prayer was offered that all members participating would have patience and understanding while the daunting task of unloading a truck and dividing the supplies took place. And the spirit was there. I’m sure there are even prayers at the beginning of Stake basketball games. Not having attended one, I can only assume the Spirit was there… though I’ve heard stories…. Seriously though, before we do anything in our daily lives, we must pray unto our Heavenly Father in the name of Christ so that our performance will be blessed and our understanding of His will increased.

In the past several months I have been diligently reading books written by LDS authors and along side those books, I have been reading the scriptures. When the Bishop asked the youth to take part in STOMP (Students Trying Out Moroni’s Promise), I decided that I, too, would Try Out this promise. I began to diligently read the scriptures and take notes while doing so, thereby hoping to access those great promises the Lord has given to open our minds and eyes to eternal understanding. What I learned was that while I am a faithful Latter-day Saint, I still lack in understanding of many things. One of these things I found I misunderstood was the word “Charity.” To me, until recently, I believed charity to mean giving something to another in need, like money or clothes. But the meaning of charity is far greater.

To quote from Sheri L. Dew "… when we plead for the gift of charity, we aren't asking for lovely feelings toward someone who bugs us or someone who has injured or wounded us. We are actually pleading for our very natures to be changed, for our character and disposition to become more and more like the Savior's, so that we literally feel as He would feel and thus do what He would do."

Each Sunday we partake of a sacred ordinance --- the sacrament. At that time we promise to take on the name of Christ, to always remember him and to have his spirit to be with us. How seriously do we take those words once the bread and water have passed? Once we have left the building? All eyes are upon us whether we know it or not. We have a great calling to fill upon this earth. No one can take your place and no one can take mine. The lives we touch are innumerable. Consider this. If we are filled with the pure love of Christ, it would be impossible to limit the influence we have on others. For our brethren, who are also filled with the pure love of Christ and hold the priesthood, it would also be impossible to limit their influence.

There are other powerful influences affecting the world today. Turn on any television at any given hour of the day. We witness the declination of family and personal values. Satan would have us believe that these images are what are real and what brings happiness. A friend once told me that there was not enough sin in the world to make him happy. He meant it in a very different way than I would view it. He lives for the world. But the world brings on a very temporal happiness. The Lord has promised us eternal happiness if we but endure to the end. Ezra Taft Benson once said, “The World would mold men by changing their environment. Christ changes men who then change their environment.”

Our actions and reactions are our charity. C. S. Lewis stated: what a man does when he is taken off guard is the best evidence of what sort of man he really is. What is our reaction when we are taken off guard? Where do we turn when we are in sudden turmoil? What is our level of patience with our fellow man, woman and child? Are we exhibiting Christ like behavior or a Christlike reaction? We have been instructed to have Faith, Hope and Charity. But the most important of these is Charity which is the pure love of Christ.

I have a sister in law who is a member of a prominent religion. Over the last year she has spoken to me at great lengths about the differences between her church and the one I attend. She once said to me, “My religion loves children. I know they do. But they don’t love them the way the Mormons love their children. In your religion families are everything and every child is taught and cared for in the church from a tender age until they leave home. I wish that for my other niece. Your children are very lucky.”

When my mother passed away, I had many calls from family members who are not of my faith. As they expressed their deepest sympathies they also added, “We know you are well cared for because you belong to a church that places family first and Mormons view everyone as their family. The women’s program of your religion is the greatest organization for helping those in need. You are in good hands.” They did not need to tell me that. I already knew. And how did they know? By their works ye shall know them.

The sergeant who saw the Book of Mormon on my bed did not know me from Adam. But somewhere in his life he must have met a member of the church whose works were good and thereby I became honored by association.

Another similar incident happened to me years later when I was working for the U. S. Marshals Service. I was in a meeting discussing some issue or other regarding whatever case we happened to be working on at the time. After the meeting a few of us remained behind to tie up loose ends and were casually talking about this thing or that when one of the women in the meeting stated, “You’re Mormon aren’t you?” When I inquired as to why she wanted to know, she simply stated, “You look Mormon.” Guilty as charged. But how my heart soared that day when I came home and told my husband, “Honey, today I was accused of being a Mormon. How cool is that?”

Our actions. Our looks. All of our very being is under a microscope in this world. We must be diligent in our efforts to present ourselves as ones who have taken on the name of Christ and always remember him. Elder L. Tom Perry stated in last October’s General Conference: Casual dress brings casual behaviour and attracts the wrong crowd. In Lehi’s dream, those in fine apparel mocked those holding the rod.”

So, not only by their works you shall know them, but by their words and attire you shall know them too.

I began my talk today with a poem that has us ask ourselves an inventory of questions at the close of day. And I would like to close by repeating portion of that poem. Before doing so, I would like to bare my testimony. I do know this church is true. I know it is true because no matter where in this country I have lived, the gospel has been consistent. It has stayed true and steadfast. It did not change its rules or beliefs. The organization of women continues to serve seemingly effortlessly. The primary teaches a child in Salt Lake the same lessons a child on Cape Cod is learning. The priesthood authority is as powerful and divinely guided today as when it was first restored. I know this church is true. I know that Thomas S. Monson is a living prophet. And I know that through the atonement we all may be saved. It is my hope and prayer that our works will continue to reflect those of the Savior. And so…

As you close your eyes in slumber,
Do you think that God will say,
“You have earned one more tomorrow
By the work you did today?”

I say these things in Jesus name. Amen.

Teacher

2009-07-19T18:20:00.002-04:00

Today Alec was ordained a Teacher. We are so proud of him!

Yesterday it was confirmed that Ken and I will be Ma and Pa on the upcoming trek next week. We are hustling to get ourselves ready. This is an exciting adventure that we've been waiting 20 years for! We are so glad it is our time!

Family Can Be Together Forever

2009-07-17T17:22:00.005-04:00

It has been quite some time since I updated our family blog. As most of you know, this has been a Spring and Summer of grieving for us. In May, Grandma Julia passed away. She had been ill for some time and was not living very comfortably. We attended her funeral. It was lovely and very touching. Although she is my grandfather's third wife (the previous two are deceased), she was a part of our life for the past 22 years and very much a grandmother to us. Julia and my grandfather grew up together. Their mothers were best friends. We are deeply saddened by our loss of her in our lives, but we know that she is happy in Heaven sharing wonderful memories with her own family who have gone before.

A couple weeks after Grandma Julia passed away our own dear mother passed. It was sudden and not in the least expected. Unlike Julia, mother did not suffer any ailments that would lead us to believe she would die. Six years ago, mom had a heart valve transplant which was necessary due to her prolapsed mitral valve which was backwashing her blood into her heart. It is believed that the valve was collecting bacteria, which is common in transplants and treated with antibiotics. What was not known was that mother had contracted a very rare bacteria (only 100 cases in the US per year) called Nocardia. She felt poorly for about a week and went to see a doctor who could not figure out what was wrong. She went into the hospital for testing and was seen by a Disease Specialist who diagnosed the Nocardia immediately. Mother was treated with antibiotics and was told she would go home in a few days. Two days later she was dead.

The shock of losing my mother so suddenly hit me like a ton of bricks. You could have shot me point blank with a pistol and the pain would have been less than what I felt at her passing. I still cannot believe that she is no longer with me. I can no longer call her on the phone. I can no longer email her or send her cards. She is no longer here.

I cling to my beliefs that there is a Father in Heaven who knows us. He knows our time here on Earth, when we are to enter and when we are to exit. I know he is well aware of my pain and sends blessings down upon me and my family every second of the day as we try to deal with our loss.

I have been to the temple no less than 4 times since mom died. I continue to do the work for her family that I was sent here to do. It gives me comfort to know that as I press forward, my mother and ancestors are also pressing forward and growing. While I know that I have many years ahead of me without my dear mother, who I had hoped would spend these years with me, there will be a time in which we will be reunited, never to be parted again, and I thank my Heavenly Father for that promise.

Mother, I love you. You are a part of me that I will never let go. I see you in gardens and all of nature. I hear you in songs. Your laughter echos through my home. You are my mother and I love you now and forever.

Speech Given By My Son for American Youth Statesman

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American Statesman Speech given by Alexander W. Webb (age 13)
May 19, 2009

The past several months we have learned about goals and how to focus on those goals.
So, as I pass out this treat (donuts), I want you to consider this quote:

As you travel through this life,
no matter what your goal --
Stay focused on the donut
and never on the hole!

Today I’m going to talk to you about a man who stood for defending freedom. His name was Patrick Henry. Patrick Henry was a defender of Freedom by telling the Patriots that they should rebel against King George III. King George III, the king of England, was trying to tax the American people for items that they needed in the colonies, such as tea.

Patrick Henry spoke out so much against the unfairness of King George, that he was accused of treason. Because he was a defender of Liberty, Patrick Henry didn’t back down to these accusations. He was a strong believer in the rights of people. One of these beliefs was in the right to bear arms. He encouraged his fellow Virginians, who also wanted Liberty, to take up arms. He became famous by making this statement: “I know not what course others may take; but as for me, Give me Liberty or Give me Death!”

I’m not sure if you know this or not, but Patrick Henry served in public offices for nearly 30 years. These offices included the Virginia House of Burgesses, the Virginia Committee of Correspondence, a Delegate to the Virginia Convention, and a delegate to the Virginia Constitution Ratification Convention. He also served five terms as Governor of Virginia.

This country, the United States of America, was always meant to be a free country, even before Patrick Henry’s famous Give me Liberty or Give me Death speech. His appearance in history at that particular time was not an accident. Heavenly Father always planned for this country to be a free one. In Alma 46, Moroni gives his own Give me Liberty or Give me Death speech when he presented the Title of Liberty to the Nephites. I will now read to you ALMA 46: 11, 12, 13, and 20.

11.And now it came to pass that when Moroni, who was the chief commander of the armies of the Nephites, had heard of these dissensions, he was angry with Amalickiah.
12. And it came to pass that he rent his coat; and he took a piece thereof, and wrote upon it – In memory of our God, our religion, and freedom, and our peace, our wives, and our children – and he fastened it upon the end of a pole.
13. And he fastened on his headplate, and his breastplate, and his shields, and girded on his armor about his loins; and he took the pole, which had on the end thereof his rent coat, (and he called it the title of liberty) and he bowed himself to the earth, and he prayed mightily unto his God for the blessings of liberty to rest upon his brethren, so long as there should a band of Christians remain to possess the land ---
20. Behold, whosoever will maintain this title upon the land, let them come forth in the strength of the Lord, and enter into a covenant that they will maintain their rights, and their religion, that the Lord God may bless them.

Captain Moroni, like Patrick Henry, stood for freedom and liberty. They were both men of God. We are only teenagers but we can learn from these leaders that by having faith and standing up for what we believe in, we can help keep this country free or die trying.

As Benjamin Franklin once said, “Those who would give up essential liberty to purchase a little temporary safety deserve neither Liberty or Safety.”

I leave these things with you, in the name of Jesus Christ. AMEN.

Kirtland, Ohio

2009-05-05T08:08:00.009-04:00

Last year we made the trek to Palmyra, New York to see the Hill Cumorah Pageant. It was wonderful! We had such a good time that I thought it would be great to continue the Mormon trek and head west to Kirtland, Ohio -- a place wrought with spirituality and revelation. (Where we get much of our Doctrine and Covenants.) For me, it knocks Hill Cumorah off the charts. Because there is no pageantry, we could focus on the history of the church and the divine revelations received by Joseph Smith. This was the ultimate trip in spirituality for us.

Here is the mill where the woodworking took place for the temple.

We began our tour in Historic Kirtland which houses the Mill and Ashery, the Newell K. Whitney home and Store, as well as the schoolhouse and other buildings. It was fascinating to learn of the sacrifices that N.K. Whitney made for the church. He was wealthy and prosperous in his own right and he handed all he had over to the building of the kingdom of God. It is one thing to read about it in Church History, it is another to see what he sacrificed up close. Walking through his house and store and being in the rooms that Joseph Smith received revelations, worked on the Pearl of Great Price, and wrought miracles was spiritually overwhelming. I have pictures posted here on the blog, but these pictures cannot bring to you the feelings that are locked within the walls of these buildings. It is something you have to experience yourself.

This small room was called the School of the Prophets. It was tiny! But great works happened here. Studies in government and Hebrew took place in this room as well as discussion of spiritual matters. It was this room that Emma tired of cleaning up the tobacco spit and how we came to have the Word of Wisdom.

After touring Historic Kirtland (where we also got a preview of the Bronze exhibit that is coming to D.C. -- A MUST SEE!), we headed to the Kirtland Temple. This is a place of beauty. We listened to the history of the building and all agreed that it is sad that this building is used now for town meetings, pot luck dinners and various meetings of whoever wants to use it. It's purpose has been fulfilled and it now stands as a monument to those of our faith who were diligent and faithful in following the guidance of the Lord.Before we left the temple, we sang "The Spirit of God Like a Fire Is Burning." What an awesome experience to sing that same song that was written about the first conference held in this building!
After leaving Kirtland, we went to Hiram, Ohio and toured the Johnson Farm. Joseph and Emma lived here for six months I believe. (It might have been a year.) This place is also incredible. When building the farm, Sister Johnson designed it to be huge because she wanted a large family (and she had something like 13-15 kids eventually). Little did she know it would become church headquarters and house not only the prophet but anyone coming and going on church business. The place was packed to the gills!
Sister Johnson was healed in the Newell K Whitney home of a pain in her arm that hindered her from doing her duties and made life difficult. This room is a room in which the prophet Joseph received revelation and met with those interested in the gospel. Below are the steps that he was dragged down by the mob and then tarred and feathered.

I took well over 60 pictures, but have posted only a few highlights of our trip. I hope you have enjoyed them. Our hope is to head to Nauvoo and Far West in late August/early September.

The table at which Joseph received revelation and spoke with the Saviour and Lord through the veil. (Johnson Family Farm)

Family Update

2009-04-27T12:13:00.002-04:00

It has been awhile since I posted, so I thought I would jump on and say hi and let you know what is going on here.

I was sick for two weeks solid. Literally in bed. It was awful. I'm doing better now, just suffering from a nasty cough and what comes along with that.

The Medieval Times class which I teach is coming to a close this week. Tomorrow is our last class and Thursday we are having a mini-medieval faire at my house. It has been a really fun class, but after teaching so many weeks (since Jan), I am glad to have a break.

Alec is doing well. He and Ken went hiking up Old Rag Mtn on Saturday. Anyone thinking my son is a not the type of person who could do such a hike, think again! He was one of the first ones of the youth (and adults) up the mountain, and he was the first one down. Poor Ken is still sore two days after. He thinks the mountain got taller.

Gaby is doing great. She has returned to homeschooling. We are so happy to have her back. She will not be returning to public school anytime soon. Both Alec and Gaby will be attending Liahona Preparatory Academy next year.

We are headed out to Kirtland, Ohio this Friday. We are really excited. It has been awhile since we went out of town and we really could use a break. We invited some friends to come along, so it should be extra fun. We'll be back on Sunday. For those of you who don't know the significance of Kirtland, it is part of our church history, though now the historical sites are operated by the Community of Christ (the former Reorganized LDS church). We'll post pics when we get back!

Finally, we planted a garden this year! We took two years off of gardening due to schooling and such. We planted in the garden boxes our corn and some peas and beans. In the topsy turvy hanging bags (that you see on tv), we planted tomatoes, hot peppers, beans, peas and bell peppers. I'm excited to see if this upside down planting really works!

Well, that is our news for now. Happy Spring! Aaaacchhhoooo!!!!

ATTENTION!!!!!!! PREGGER PEOPLE!

2009-04-17T21:16:00.002-04:00

Just wanted to say....

WE'RE NOT PREGNANT!!!!

LOL Well, everyone else is! We just thought we would rebel. LOL We're VERY happy for everyone, but we'll participate by cheering on the sidelines! (Though I have been sick in bed for nearly a week now!)

HAPPY PREGNANCY EVERYONE!!!! We look forward to meeting our nieces and nephews in the coming year. Can we just say KEN is a great name for a boy!

CONGRATS EVERYONE!!!

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Crazy Busy

2009-04-07T16:58:00.002-04:00

We've been crazy busy here this past weekend getting ready for today. Check us out!

www.medievaltimes4kids.blogspot.com.

Photos from General Conference

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Something to put a smile on your face!

2009-04-03T20:43:00.001-04:00

Organization Station

2009-04-02T15:17:00.012-04:00

I'm sure we're not alone when I say that our life has gotten out of control. Having been sick for nearly a month, and the girl tumbling after, not a lot got done around the Webb household in the months of February and March. After much prayer and contemplation we are on a new schedule that has proven to not only better our family relationship, but is also saving us time and money. How can that be bad?!

Sundays we have totally done a 180. After church we sneak home and darken the house, turn off the phones, the cells, and the computers. We are enjoying our afternoons watching the Modern Prophets series each week, as well as other fun LDS movies like American Mormon or The Work and the Glory. Of course naps have now entered into our Sunday routine. It's great! So, if you call on Sunday and we don't pick up, it's nothing personal. It's just our day to tune out the world.

Mondays are now housecleaning day. No schoolwork, just deep cleaning the house. By doing this I no longer feel the stress of a dirty house. It is amazing how much stress this has taken off of me. I know that the whole family isn't here to help, but that can be a good thing. I can stay focused and not have to wonder who is doing what to keep up. It is a great time to clean out those drawers in the kitchen or clear off the bookshelves and give them a good dusting.

Tuesday and the rest of the days of the week begin with an hour to an hour and a half of house upkeep or gardening. Decluttering, trash take out, and any other little things that seem to get overlooked. I found that by keeping up on the house the first thing in the morning I have a great looking home during the day and am not distracted by the clutter.

Tuesday - Thursday is school time. We get a lot more done in those days. Our focus is on our on line courses and other classes that we take away from the home.

Friday is Fun Friday or Finish Friday depending on how the week went. Some weeks are filled with outside classes or field trips and so we need this day to catch up on online studies or reports that are due for other classes.

Saturday is spent with Dad and Mom doing something fun. Some errands or projects get done on that day. The night is always filled with a family movie and lots of junk food! (Not so good for the diet!)

We have been getting up each day at 6:30. We join for family prayer and a full sit down meal and scriptures. This, we decided, is the way to go for us. We treat our breakfast hour as importantly, if not more so, than our dinner hour. We need to put on that armour of protection before going out into the world. Breakfast is the most important meal of the day and prayer is the most important action. Combine the two and we are ready to face the world! We end our day promptly at 9 for the kids and 10 for the adults. Lights out and no exceptions. With as busy as we are, it has not been an issue. Most nights I don't even remember falling asleep!

So how does all this save us money? Well, since we are on a set schedule for meals, it is necessary for us to have a meal plan for the week. We now plan for full breakfasts, lunches and dinners. I just make a list of what is needed for those menus and stay focused on the list. Nothing extra if possible. I am back down to $76 per week for food for my family. It feels GREAT to be back on track!

Currently I am prepping for the Trek this summer. So, I'm working out on circuit training a couple times a week (or at least try to), but I am also walking every day. So far I am up to just over 4 miles. My goal is to be able to walk 10 miles steadily since that is the maximum walking per day on the trek. (Hopefully it will take off the weight and all that fun stuff from Saturday movie night!)

What has all this done for my family? It has brought peace. I've always prided myself in being organized and a list maker, but when you work from home, and your kids school at home, it is hard to keep clutter free. At times, okay all the time, it is hard to set boundaries between work/school/and family life. The boundaries blur. We have been set on this schedule for two weeks now and the change in everyone is great.

I'm still doing well on a book a week. You can check out the list of reading in the sidebar. My new love, however, is podcasts. If you get a change to check out Mommycast.com I think you might like it too. Those ladies sure keep me entertained on my long walks!

Five more weeks until school is out and then it will be time to adjust our weekly schedule. But for now, we remain Organization Station!

Service Project

2009-04-01T12:22:00.005-04:00

Our ward has adopted the street it lives on. As a service project, the youth regularly maintain the roadside. Here the deacons and doing their monthly service project.

Great job, guys!

Happy Spring!

2009-03-27T13:21:00.002-04:00

No pictures today, I'm afraid. But I thought I would pop in to update everyone on our life. If you want to see pictures, go to the previous two postings and check out our visit to the State Capitol.

Ken is doing well. He is working hard at both church and work. I thought having him out of school would make his life easier. Nope. His days last as long as they did whilst he was at UOP.

Alexander is doing well. He has slowed down on Scouts a bit while he focuses on some other things in his life, like earning money! He is currently working as a dog sitter for a family in the ward and bringing in some sweet cash. The only merit badges he is focusing on now is his Personal Fitness and Personal Finance. Both take about three months to complete and are involved.

Gabrielle is home sick this week. She has an infection in her gland just below her chin. It is so large you can see it by just looking at her. The infection has burst through the skin and she is sporting a nasty 2-3 inch sore. She's been on antibiotics for three days and is slowly feeling better. It brought about high fever, chills, soreness in throat and in legs. Crazy!

Saturday (tomorrow), Ken and Allie (my 17 yo cousin) are going with the YW repelling. How fun that would be if we could all go! I haven't been repelling in over 25 years.

My Medieval Times class is up and going. The first day went off without a hitch, which is nice. We are taking a trip to the Medieval Times restaurant in two weeks. I can't wait!

That appears to be all the news on this end. We hope everything is well with all of you reading this.

Until next time....

HEAV Visit to the State Capitol

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A Day at the State Capitol.

2009-03-20T14:32:00.008-04:00

Yesterday the kids and I went to the state capitol to take part in the homeschool day visit at the capitol. We were greeted with kind words of praise, the session opened with a prayer (Do you think the government would have offered that if we were public school kids? Don't know.), and given opportunities of a lifetime.

Our former Lieutenant Governor and Senate candidate addressing the audience and telling us about the new laws protecting homeschoolers. Universities and Colleges are not allowed to refuse homeschoolers scholarships. NICE!

Sitting in Senate Chambers.

A bill has been presented. Should homeschoolers be allowed to take part in public school sports? (They do pay school taxes after all!)

Arguments and rebuttal.

Place your vote.

Visiting the Supreme Court in Richmond. Here we have 7 Justices.

On the steps of the Capitol.

Spring obviously came to Richmond earlier than in Manassas!

Alec has the opportunity to serve as a Page in the next General Assembly (January - February). It is a paying job and the government will house him at the Omni Hotel which is located across the street from the capitol. How cool is that? Not too shabby for a resume or college application!

Spring is here!

2009-03-18T17:16:00.009-04:00

Who cares what Punxsutawney Phil says? Spring has arrived in Virginia!

After a month of being terribly sick, I have to say that I am thrilled that Spring is here. I have the windows opened and am airing out all the stuffiness of winter. Of course, allergies from these pollenating trees will hit with a vengence, but that is beside the point!

Flowers are blooming. Trees are budding. Birds are calling. I love it!

Tomorrow my unsocialized homeschooler, public schooler and I are joining 550 other socially deprived homeschoolers at the capitol in Richmond. There the kids will vote on a bill, meet with members of the General Assembly and tour the Governor's Mansion. We need to leave the house around 6am in order to get there in time to sign in and begin our various lectures and tours. Thank goodness Jackie is driving!

Alec completed two more merit badges this week! Dog Care and Cooking. Disclaimer: He did not cook the dog to achieve both badges!

Well, that is all the news here. I begin teaching Medieval Times (www.medievaltimes4kids.blogspot.com) next Tuesday. I have been working hard on getting the lessons and supplies together. I will be glad when it has started. That is the most stressful part. Once we get going, I seem to relax. After this class I will take off for the summer and start up in September.

We have a full Spring/Summer ahead of us. Gaby is going to the Chesapeake for a week for summer camp with the YMCA. (Thanks to the $500 gift from PNC.) Alec has BSA camp, pioneer trek and Radio Producer camp all in August. We'll head to the Hamptons for a week and hopefully to VA Beach for a week. And, then there is swimming classes for a week. Busy summer! I am taking part in a homeschool conference at Southern Virginia State College in May. And, we're hoping to head to NC to visit family in the near future. Now that the weather is nice, I am definitely looking forward to getting out and about.

We hope all is well with everyone and Happy Spring people!

MommyCast

2009-03-12T17:07:00.002-04:00

www.mommycast.com

Many of the people who read my blog are moms, and so I wanted to pass onto you a podcast group that may interest you. You can download podcasts or vblogs or you can watch online. These ladies are cute and I think you will enjoy their show.

http://podcast.mommycast.com/

I will add to the sidebar for future easy access.

Enjoy!

Inquiring Minds Want to Know

2009-03-12T15:17:00.006-04:00

We've received IMs, emails, phone calls .... all asking the same question....

Did Ken ever graduate from college?

So, I thought I would go ahead and post it here for anyone who was ever wondering if Ken finished school....

The answer is YES!!!!

We are happy to announce that Kenneth Lee Webb of Manassas, Virginia, graduated from The University of Phoenix on February 14, 2009.

Ken has decide to further his education by pursuing a Master's degree. He has NOT chosen a school yet and we do NOT know when he will begin. Currently Ken is promoting his new company and has his hands full.

We want to thank everyone for their emails, IMs, and calls of inquiry. Yes, we were surprised, too, that the day finally came. We have not officially celebrated, but assure you that when we do, you'll be the first to know!

CONGRATULATIONS KEN!!!!

Post Script: Ken wants you all to know he found the whole thing very anticlimatic.

Our Life Scout

2009-03-08T20:27:00.006-04:00

Today Alec passed his Board of Review. We are so proud of him. On Tuesday he stands to receive more merit badges than anyone else in his troop. I can only remember a few of them: Lifesaving, Reading, Citizenship in the Nation, Citizenship in the World, Journalism, Coin Collecting, Communications (which he earned in September but they never awarded), and Family Life. I can't remember the others. Oh yes!!! The Mile Swim patch. About every two weeks Alec swims the mile. It takes him about 40 minutes and he is exhausted, but he does it and does it well. Yeah, Alec!

Retrieving a cinderblock from the bottom of the deep end of the pool.

We are so proud of Alec. It took about 15 hours to earn this merit badge. But he did it!

He attended his Life to Eagle prep class and is now on the path to Eagle. We look forward to seeing what this great scout has in store for us in the coming months.

Congratulations, Alec!

Quick Post -- WAY TO GO ALEC

2009-03-05T12:13:00.001-05:00

I just have to post and say that I am so proud of my boy! He signed off two merit badges last night -- Journalism and Coin Collecting. He is signing off Citizenship in the World on Saturday and LifeSaving on Friday. Tuesday he will complete Life and begin his EAGLE!!!!!

WAY TO GO ALEC!!!!

It's all about the dogs....

2009-03-02T18:51:00.007-05:00

Watch dog!

The professor.

Mardi Gras!

Naptime!

Most people just pull a rabbit out of a hat....

The AD Girls

2009-03-02T18:43:00.004-05:00

Gaby is all about her girls! Our Achievement Day girls decided that getting together twice a month at church wasn't enough, so they have implemented their own once a month gathering -- er ... party. February was Gaby's month to host. Of course she chose a hot tub party.

The girls chillaxin'. Dad checking on everybody.

Alec playing disc jockey and making sure everyone stayed in line.

The Newseum

2009-03-02T18:23:00.006-05:00

A week and a half ago we took a homeschool field trip to the Newseum in Washington, D.C. The kids participated in a class titled "Ethics in Media." Alec and I had toured the Newseum earlier in the school year and had so much fun that this time we pulled Gaby from school to go with us. As we left the class, the instructor gave us a stack of all the front pages of the newspapers in the US for February 7th. How cool is that?

Gabrielle "reporting" on line. The kids in the background are filming themselves giving the news.

The Funny Side of News.

Ethics in Media training.

There's always a "girls" table.

Discussing ethics case.

The not so funny side of news. The Berlin Wall.

This picture was taken in the rearview side mirror. Not too bad.

For Gaby, it is all about the food! Subway. Yum!

We really enjoy the Newseum. As homeschoolers we were able to attend free. Cost is around $12 a person regularly, I think. However, if you ever get the chance to visit the Newseum, I would highly recommend it. Plan on staying for a couple hours. There is a great 4-D film that is definitely worth viewing!

Letterboxing in Fredericksburg

2009-02-17T17:40:00.008-05:00

I should just start a letterboxing blog, but as I am running 7 blogs already, I think I'll wait a bit!

Monday we got a late start heading down to Fredericksburg. The main reason for our excursion was to see the Apothecary. We were going to tour some other places, but decided against it. Anyway, the cost for the historic sites was half price for President's Day, so we decided to take advantage and tour the site we were most interested in... the Apothecary. Pictures are not allowed to be taken inside the building. The tour was really very interesting. I learned more about the use of herbs than I had ever known. The kids liked (or rather were in disgust and awe of) the leeches which were squirming in a nearby jar.

We left the apothecary and headed up the street to the local newspaper where we had clues for finding a letterbox. This particular letterbox was hidden by a girlscout troop. It was very cute.

The next letterbox we sought was on the river. We had no luck, but it wasn't from lack of trying and you can see. Ken's whole arm is in this hole and still it went back further. Sadly, no letterbox!Here are few more pictures from our day in Freddy.

Letterboxing and Civil War Cemeteries

2009-02-15T16:25:00.021-05:00

Yes, it is an odd combination -- Letterboxing and Civil War Cemeteries.

It was a gorgeous, if not cold, day here in Manassas, Virginia. Crisp and beautiful and beckoning. Our family decided it was a perfect day to take a drive through our "backyard."

We set out first to find a letterbox down the road at the local campus of George Mason University. The title of this letterbox is "Goldfish Crackers" and was placed last summer by a young girl and her father. It is an easy find if you are interested in trying your hand at LBing with some success.

Our next stop was to find the VT Hokie Orange Stink Bug. This was on a trail at the Northern Virginia Community College campus in Manassas by the Manassas Battlefield. We had no success in locating the letterbox, but Gaby had fun performing on the stage we found by the woods.

Since we were on Battlefield property anyway, we decided to follow a side road by 66 towards part of the battlefield headed in the direction of DC. We came across a nice area which held the Portici plantation which was owned by the Francis W. Lewis family.

After leaving Portici, we headed down to Pageland Lane to find a hidden Confederate graveyard we learned about from a friend. I would not have found it had it not been for the octagon house across the street from the field which held the trees, which hid the fence that houses the graveyard. From the street, you would never know there was a cemetery on the hill. Gaby and I scrambled over briers and ditches to get to the hill and then climbed a cow fence to get out. Fun times! Most of the graves here are not marked and the metal fence that surrounds the graveyard has rotted. What a wonderful project this would be for a local scout troop!

Look closely. Can you see the Octagon house at the bottom of the hill and across the street? This was taken from the Graveyard looking down from whence we came.

Follow this link to learn more about Pageland Lane during the Civil War. http://www.history.army.mil/books/Staff-Rides/2Manassas/2mns-01.htm

After leaving the cemetery we headed back into Old Towne Manassas and stopped briefly at the Confederate graveyard there. Time and weather have beaten off the writing for most of the graves, but a few have markers stating which division they are from and what year they died. A confederate monument stands to the side of the graves next to the train tracks.

My own house resides on what use to be part of the Cloverhill Plantation. Just one mile up the hill from my house sits an old slave house on Wellington Rd. It is easily missed as it is set between the backside of Giant Shopping Centre and a local church. This tiny house not only house the slave family, but I heard a story that when the Plantation house burned, the owner moved his family into the slave house. How that can be, I do not know. This little house is no bigger than a shed, and may be what it is used for today. I can't tell.

It is amazing what you can find (and do) in your own backyard if you take time out on a beautiful day!

Lucasville School Continued

2009-02-14T13:44:00.004-05:00

Today my family and I took the opportunity to visit the Lucasville School. This school was for African American students only in the last century. It is open this month on weekends only. All other times is by appointment only. We had a great visit. If you are in the Manassas area and are looking for an interesting historical site to visit, this is one to go to. Cost: donation.

You can check out our other pictures of the Lucasville school by scrolling down two blog entries. Scroll to older posts and you can see the photos and entry about Brentsville.

Gaby's First Orchestra Recital

2009-02-13T14:25:00.002-05:00

Gaby chose to play the cello this year. Last night was her first recital. I think all the kids were a bit nervous and excited at the same time. She has performed in piano recitals before, but before a smaller audience. This was in front of the entire school. In a couple months they will perform in the All City Concert. Pretty fun stuff!

Lucasville School

2009-02-10T14:19:00.009-05:00

With Spring and the warm air comes the desire to get out and explore. Every year I like to search out new places to find. The Lucasville school is one particular place I've been seeking for some months now. I knew it was on Godwin Drive, but I apparently didn't go down Godwin as far as necessary. (I erroneously believed the road to dead end with the new housing community.) This one room school house is about 3 miles from my own home. For the month of February it will be opened on weekends for tours. You can bet I will be there this Saturday! What a great place for a homeschool field trip.

From the outside it doesn't appear to be much. But peek in the window and you can see it is the perfect spot for a small class. How I wish I could hold my classes in there! Wouldn't that be fun?!

Hooray for wonderful historic find number 2 this year!

For more information go to: http://www.aaheritageva.org/search/sites.php?site_id=623

Christmas!!!! Coming to a mailbox near you!

2009-02-10T09:15:00.003-05:00

It is finally on its way to you! Sorry it took so long. You all should receive it by Saturday. We hope you enjoy it. Laura, Nanny and Papa's gift is included with yours. Could you pass it on to them for us? ;) We'd appreciate it.

Wish you all were coming out here with them. Hopefully we will be able to see you before the year is out.

2009-02-08T21:04:00.001-05:00

Busy Life

2009-02-07T09:57:00.006-05:00

Sorry I haven't really been in touch with anyone. Life here is extremely busy. But whose isn't, right?

Everyone here is doing fine. Ken is in his last week (maybe 2) of school. He will be so glad to be done with this math class. (And so will we!) We are filing our LLC this week and are setting up our first interview on Monday for business. Wish us luck!

My own small business is going well. I advertised my Medieval Times for Kids class and it filled the first day. I hope and pray all my future classes do the same. You can see what the classes are like by clicking on the links in the side bar.

Alexander is doing well. He is closing out his Citizenship in the Nation merit badge and Reading Merit Badge this week. If he goes on the scout camping trip, he will close out his Cooking Merit Badge as well. Go Alec! He has also set up his interview for closing out his Life Saving Merit Badge. He has been one busy boy.

Alec conducting a telephonic interview with a State official for his Citizenship in the Nation merit badge.

Gaby has another competition coming in two weeks. We have definitely overbooked. On the weekend of February 21st we have Boyscout campout, Piano recitals and Gymnastics competition in VA Beach. Something has to give. We just don't know what yet.

Allie and Gaby before the Meet at Arlington Aerials.

That appears to be all on this homefront. I hope all is well with you!

The Pledge of Allegience

2009-02-05T15:11:00.001-05:00

Brentsville, Virginia

2009-02-02T10:33:00.007-05:00

NOTE: IF YOU CLICK ON THE TITLE OF THIS ENTRY YOU WILL BE TAKEN TO THE ACTUAL BRENTSVILLE SITE.

Sunday, February 1, 2009, in Virginia was a gorgeous day. (And we haven't had many of them lately.) The sun was shining and there was not a cloud in the sky. We decided after church that we would take a drive to Brentsville (5 miles from our house) to locate a gravesite of a friend of ours who passed away in 2008. (Another story for another day.) We eventually found our friend's grave, but before that, we stumbled upon a historic wonder that is literally in our backyard. In fact, when we drove about a quarter mile past this location we could literally see the street to our house. Since there is no direct connecting road we didn't find this place until we stumbled on it yesterday.

I thought I would share some pictures with you. I'll post again when we return for a tour and hike.

Brentsville Courthouse

One Room School House

Courthouse

Jail

There are currently archealogical digs going on here. This is the site of the old Tavern.

The field behind the buildings where soldiers were mustered.

Trails leading off to who knows where. We'll check them out when the land is not so muddy.

There was a gate blocking us from this building. Can't wait to get in closer!

Journalism!!!

2009-01-30T14:18:00.005-05:00

Alec is working on his Journalism Merit badge, so we took a homeschool trip to (of all places) WEBTV. This public access station offers classes to students ages 12-18. After completion of the class, each student is a certified producer of Radio (or television if that is the class he/she took). After graduating from the course, that same student can use the studio any time for free to produce his/her own radio or tv show. Well... guess what our new project is? It is something we are definitely looking into.

My friend, Tina, and I considered doing a homeschool radio show but decided will begin our own Podcast show this summer. As soon as we are up and running, I will post the link to you all so you can tune in.

But all that aside, here are some pictures of our trip to the Radio/Television station.

This television studio shares space with a cooking show. Behind the cameras is a full kitchen.

Meena was our guide. She has her own tv show that is broadcast throughout the world.

This guy was very nice! He was running his show and took time out to answer questions and introduce us on the air.

Ah! Here is the kitchen!

Resolution Review

2009-01-30T08:37:00.000-05:00

Well, it has been a month since resolutions have been made. I've been diligent and hope to see these resolutions through the entire year. One month down and eleven to go!

My goal to read a book a week seems to be moving right along. Out of the 52 books I intended on reading, I have completed 8 books (1539 pages) and in the middle of a couple more. You can follow my list on the side bar. I've had a great time reading. While I was in school I had no time and now I am making up for it. These books were great. You can see my reviews of them on Virtual Bookshelf. (BTW, I have to list the number of pages because Ken is following me in this goal too. He wants to count pages vs number of books. How he can count pages when he listens to them in audio.....!!!! Anyway, that is why that figure is there.)

My goal to lose 25 lbs this year is on its way too. That would put me at about 2 lbs a month. So far for January I lost 5 lbs. I've been walking and doing circuit training almost regularly. And drinking water. I hope to be soda free sometime this year. I am on no special diet... just making changes slowly. More veg. More water. More exercise. Reading helps too. I don't eat when I read, but I'll snack if I watch tv. Go figure.

Anyway! I'm pretty happy that so far this year I have kept to my New Year's Resolutions!

Snow in Manassas!! Whatever will we do???!!!!

2009-01-27T09:31:00.004-05:00

It is the last week of January and there appears to be white stuff falling from the sky! No one seems to know what to do about it?! Do we love it? Do we hate it? Reviews are mixed. (Quick! Run to the store! Load up on bread and milk! This could last a whole 5 hours!)

Schools chose to close at 8 am today, just in time for all the little kiddies to get off their buses and out of their cars and walk into the building, leaving some students stranded. What to make of it all? Parents began getting cell phone calls from the school system at 8:30 to come and retrieve said stranded kids. (And please no playing in the snow! We have no idea what damage this substance can do!)

All kidding aside, at the Webb house the sleds have been brought out and the fun has begun. Sledding and snowball fights are underway. Later there will be a fire and hot cocoa. Yummm!

Big Events!

2009-01-15T21:39:00.003-05:00

Watch out Alec!

This year is gonna be a challenging one. First off there is the hike/camping trip to Old Rag Mountain. (A place that still gives me nightmares! Thanks to Ken and Dave I lived through it!) Then he has scout camp, which will be a breeze, except ..... the week before Scout camp this summer is the TREK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Finally, the trek time has come around again. I can't wait!!!!

But Alec isn't too adverse to trials ... after all he did swim a full mile yesterday. He was exhausted but he did it! Go Alec!

Back into the swing of things...

2009-01-13T08:14:00.003-05:00

Well, it took a few weeks, but we are finally back into the swing of things.

Ken is back at work and on the side starting up his new business. He met with the corporate attorneys with his company and was given the go ahead as there is no conflict of interest in what he is doing on his own and what he is doing for them. Ken also ended up not cleping out of his last class, which is Math, so tonight he begins his final class with UOP. I can tell you now, he can't wait to be done. He is behind in the schedule he planned for himself, but life throws us curve balls now and again and we just have to adjust. Five weeks and he is finished!

Gaby is back at school. She is pulling in awesome grades and is so pleased with herself. She is competing this weekend against the Arlington Aerials. She hasn't got her kip down yet, so I believe she will scratch on the bar event.

Alec has a court of honor tonight and is receiving 3 or 4 merit badges. Maybe it's 5, I can't remember. He is back in the swing of things with his classes with Liahona; tomorrow he starts the Chaucer/Canterbury Tales class I am teaching; he has swimming two days a week; American Statesman on Thursdays (alternating weeks); piano on Tuesdays; and, a research writing course on Tuesdays beginning next week. And he was just called back into the Deacon's quorum presidency. (He got two months respite, so that is something!) I'm sure I am missing something else he is working on, but that is all I can think of for now.

I am doing well. I am working out with the girls (3 ladies from church) two to three days a week. One of my friends has a complete gym in her basement (she used to own a ladies gym) and so on the yucky days we work out there. When the weather is fine we walk a couple miles. So, though my weight isn't dropping, I am getting into shape slowly but surely.

I'm also keeping up with my goal of reading a book a week. I'm on books 4 and 5. (I read two books at a time -- sometimes three. I have one on each floor and depending on where I am, that is the book I'm reading. (Or what mood I'm in.) Right now I am finishing The Invisible Wall (AWESOME BOOK!) and just started The Man Who Loved Jane Austin (much better than the book A Walk With Jane Austen).

Tomorrow I begin teaching Chaucer and the Canterbury Tales to a group of 15 homeschoolers. I'm always nervous before I begin teaching a new class, until I get the feel of the students, but I'm sure everything will be fine. Teaching these literature courses has been a nice way to bring in some pocket money and give me a sense of purpose. And it is nice to share with others something you are passionate about.

That appears to be all the news on this end. Nothing new or particularly noteworthy, but we are definitely back into the swing of things. Our family definitely thrives on schedules!

Happy Birthday Kenny!!!

2009-01-11T17:49:00.002-05:00

Well, my dear husband turned 42 this week. He doesn't look a day over 41 and 369 days. Really!

We didn't do much on his actual birthday due to schedules, but last night we had Fred and Judy over and played Wizard while Gaby, Alec and Tori found other games to play. It was a lot of fun. Laura, you will be happy to know that Ken got the new Raymon Rabids for his birthday so that he can play with you on the Wii. He also got a PSP game and a new portable X-M radio. He is quite happy.

Thanks for everyone who called. He enjoyed your messages.

New Year... New Goals

2009-01-05T13:02:00.004-05:00

We've had a few years where our New Year's Resolution was to have no Resolutions. This year we are back to list making. We find that when we set goals for ourselves our lives have an added purpose and it is always a thrill to see those goals achieved.

One of my personal goals is to read a book a week this year. I'm doing pretty good so far and think I will achieve reading 4 books this month. Losing weight is always an admirable goal and one I am working on. I have also decided to do a social experiment (and I may blog on this from time to time). Each person I meet on the street, in the store, etc. I plan on greeting as though I know them and haven't seen them in a long time. I've been doing this lately and it is surprising how happy the smiles are that return back to me. I believe that emotions are contagious, so my goal this year is to see if we can spread some smiles throughout the area. If one person's mood is changed for the better it will affect another person they come across and so on.

As a family we are reaching towards more spiritual goals. We are celebrating our ancestors through temple work and family history recognition (ie studying about their lives). We will also continue to do community service, in which we are very active but will increase a bit more. (Small things add up!) And finally, devotionals. We have learned that life with daily scripture reading is a must in this world. For us , we cannot survive without it. Our days in which we don't start off dedicating to the Lord are more cumbersome than those where we put the Lord first.

Our plans for the year are more temporal. I am continuing to teach homeschoolers and my clientel is steadily growing which is very pleasing to me. Ken has begun work on his business and we hope that it will be up and going within the next three months.

We are talking of trips for later in the year, but nothing is solid yet. We would like to get to Utah sometime between August and October or both. (Alec has a conference to attend the week of General Conference, so he may just go alone.) Gaby will be away this summer at gymnastics camp in Pennsylvania; Alec will be at Boy Scout Camp; both kids will spend a week in the Hamptons; and we are spending a week at VA Beach with my sisters in law from NY and neice who will be 5. (Anyone wanting to join us is welcome!)

Yesterday, I finally was released from my Sunday School calling after over 3 years of service. YAY! I am looking forward to attending adult Sunday School!

That appears to be all our news on this front. We hope you all are doing well too.

Merry Christmas... Again and Again and Again!!!

2008-12-30T13:38:00.026-05:00

At our house when we celebrate birthdays we celebrate the entire month. We've never celebrated Christmas so long before. This year was a first! We began our Christmas celebration visiting family in North Carolina. We were thrilled to meet our 2 year old great nephew Antonio (AKA Kenito) Stratton. We spent some fun hours with our nephew and niece, Devon (10) and Julia (7), playing Wii in our hotel. And, we had a great visit with my dear Grandfather and Julia, as well as my brother Daniel and my mom and dad.

Alec, Julia, Ken, Melyssa, Dad, Granddaddy, Gaby.

Alec, Mom, Julia, Ken, Daniel, Dad, Granddaddy, Melyssa, Gaby, Julia, Devon and Antonio.

Granddaddy (92) and Melyssa (forever young!).

Great Great Grandfather with Great Great Grandson.

Dad and Daniel.

Daniel with his grandson Tony.

Mom with her great grandson.

Ken setting a great example to his great nephew.

The "kids" table.

Tony has mastered the art of spoon balancing.

Ken with Father Christmas.

The Grandkids.
Brother and Sister

After a couple days in North Carolina, we headed home and stopped by Tracy's house in Virginia where we sort of celebrated for an hour and a half. (grin) It was great seeing Tracy, Lauren, Josh, Matthew and Treveon.
Tracy, Treveon, and Melyssa.

We spent a night at home and then headed onward to New York where we celebrated Christmas with my brother Dean and his wife Joanne; my nephews Neil and Matt; Neil's fiance Amy; my sister in law and brother in law Dan and Jen and their daughter Emily; Grandma and Grandpa Ficorelli; Ralph, Claudia, Jason, Seamus and Eleni. I think I got them all! We went to Mass on Christmas eve and then to a great Italian dinner at Capelletti's.

Now, that's Italian!

Christmas morning at Jo-Jo's!

The traditional run...
Thanks Nanny and Papa!
Ken is such a good sport!

Have you met David's sister Nancy?!
She could be Ken's twin!
Breakfast burritos for Christmas breakfast. Yummm....

The day after Christmas, Gaby and I, along with Jen, Emily, Ann, MacKenzie and Jake went to Morton's Park where we fed the birds. Never in my life have I had the joy of feeding chickadees, nut hatches, woodpeckers and bluejays out of my hand! It was wonderful!

Jenn, Melyssa and Ann Benbenek.

McKenzie and Gabrielle.

Feeding the chickadees at Morton's.

We hope you all had a joyous Christmas and wish you all the love and happiness that the New Year has to offer. Merry Christmas and Happy New Year (again and again and again!)!!!!!!

Our Holiday Activities

2008-12-19T08:44:00.008-05:00

Like everyone else, our holidays began at Thanksgiving. We enjoyed turkey, stuffing, mashed potatoes, yams and pie. We spent Thanksgiving day in bed sick, but managed to do our holiday shopping on Black Friday. Usually Ken and I get up at 3 am to shop, but we had been sick so we went later in the morning and found that we really hadn't missed out on anything.

A highlight of our Thanksgiving was the visit of one of "our boys." Elder Jackson, who served in the Manassas 2nd ward 2-3 years ago, paid us a visit with his lovely bride Kimberly. It was so great to see him again and get to know his wife.

Ken, Melyssa, Michael and Kimberly.

The first week of December we decorated the house for Christmas. It was a big deal for us since the last several years we've been in school and not decorated until a couple days before Christmas or have been out of town. We had fun going through the ornaments and checking things out. We decided that there are some things that are quite old and unnecessary so after the holidays we will be weeding out those items!

Gabrielle, Melyssa, Elder Allred and Alec.

The month of December brought with it missionary farewells. We were really sad to see Elder Allred and Elder Spencer go home. Both Elders spent an enormous amount of time in Manassas 2nd Ward. I think they both served 9 months each. When you spend that much time with missionaries they become like family and it is hard to see them go. I'm sure their mothers are thrilled to have them back! We love you Elder Spencer and Elder Allred!

Gaby, Melyssa, Elder Spencer, Ken and Alec.

The first and second weekends in December were the production dates for Centreville Stake's Savior of the World. The preparations for this production began in January 2008. I was brought into it in July and officially began work in August. It was definitely a labor of love. I will never forget my time served doing Savior of the World and look forward to doing something similar in years to come.

Savior of the World set on opening night.

The cast mingles among the crowd after the show opening night.

Ryan Mao as Samuel the Lamanite with Ken (in stage crew ninja outfit!).

Samuel Clark, Ryan Mao, Melyssa and Melanie Clark. Samuel served on stage crew as well as played the role of a Roman guard. Melanie served on stage crew.

A rather bad video of Gaby with Dominique. Our camera died as soon as Gaby walked up to her. LOL Looking back at it, it REALLY is BAD!

Gaby competed twice in December. Once in Fredericksburg and once in VA Beach. She scratched on the bars because she doesn't have her kip down. But here are some clips of her competing.

The rest of December we will be in North Carolina and New York visiting family. We are really looking forward to it. It has been two years since I have seen my brother and I really miss him and the kids.

January will bring more competitions, Chaucer for Kids (which I am teaching), genealogy classes on the New Search program the church has. A Savior of the World party and a High Priest Quorum family party. And of course, Ken's 42nd birthday! Can't forget that!

We hope all is well with you and your family and wish you a very Merry Christmas and Prosperous New Year!

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year

2008-12-17T11:26:00.002-05:00

No pictures to share today. Not that we haven't taken any, it is just that life is really busy right now.

The Savior of the World production ran for two weeks and was absolutely fabulous! The spirit was so strong you could reach out and touch it. Too many sacred experiences to share on a blog, but when we get together I would be happy to share them in person.

The kids are doing well. Both are busy in their various activities. Gaby was able to meet Shawn Johnson (Olympic medal gymnast) and have pictures taken with her. I'll load those up on Gaby's site some time soon.

I am teaching Chaucer this January and the class has filled up rather quickly. I always get nervous before hand but I'm sure it will all turn out well.

We've had a wonderful Christmas season this year and we attribute it all to the Savior of the World production. It has made such an impact on our family that I truly cannot put it into words.

We hope that you all have a joyous season. We will be gone to NC and NY for the holidays to see family but wish you all the very best.

Happy Thanksgiving!

2008-11-25T16:46:00.003-05:00

We want to wish you all a very Happy Thanksgiving! This is my favourite holiday of the year. It is a reminder of how blessed we all are to be living in a free country and members of a wonderful gospel! We love you all and hope that your holidays are special and blessed!

Ken, Melyssa, Alec and Gaby

CONGRATULATIONS TO THE LOVE of MY LIFE!

2008-11-11T11:39:00.002-05:00

Congratulations to Ken for finally finishing his classes! I am SO proud of him! Last night was his final class with the University of Phoenix!!!!!

CONGRATULATIONS KEN! I AM SO PROUD OF YOU!!!!!!

Gadsby's Tavern Tour and Playing on the Potomac

2008-11-07T18:23:00.012-05:00

Today was a gorgeous day in Alexandria, Virginia. I organized a homeschool field trip to historic Gadsby's Tavern in old town. Who knew the day would be picture perfect. The weather was sunny and beautiful with temperatures in the high 70s and no humidity!

Our day started off at Gadsby's Tavern where the children took a tour and then discussed the Compromise of 1790. Don't know what that is? Look it up!

Our homeschool group discussing the location of the Capitol.

Where the men ate. Women ate elsewhere and didn't even sleep in the Tavern.

Can you imagine 3 men sleeping in this bed!? You rented "space", not a "room."

After taking the tour and discussing the Compromise of 1790, the children performed a reading of a skit. Each student played the role of an important individual involved in the Compromise. Acitivities such as this help kids remember history facts. The kids had a great time and really surprised us with what they had learned in their own independent studies to prepare for this visit.

Alec as Alexander Hamilton

Holding a sugar cone. Not very pleasing to the smell or touch!

So this is how they press citrus!

After touring Gadsby's Tavern we went to Bugsy's Tavern in Old Town. The children saved their pizza crust to feed to the catfish and seagulls.

The Potomac.

It was a wonderful day out and as you can tell, we really enjoyed ourselves. We have no more field trips planned until we tour the State Capitol in January where we will watch our State government in session.

Congratulations Alec!!!!

2008-11-05T14:46:00.007-05:00

Today Alec was promoted to Level VI (6) for Swimming. This is as far as he can go. We're hoping he will elect to try and become a lifeguard for next summer. I never could do what he has been doing. Today he had to tread water for 10 minutes. I'm lucky if I can do one! Way to go son!

On another note.... Here are our Halloween Pictures. Enjoy!

VOTE!!!!!

2008-11-04T09:10:00.006-05:00

VOTE EARLY!!!!

VOTE OFTEN!!!

VOTE REPUBLICAN!!!!!!!!!!

Fun in D.C. -- the Newseum and Olympic Gymnasts All Stars

2008-10-31T09:17:00.021-04:00

This week was crazy, but I would have to say that Friday was insane! The day began at 5:30ish and ended about Midnight.

Alec and I headed out early in the morning for a field trip to the Newseum in Washington, D.C.. It was a great trip and I highly recommend it. We got in free because the city was sponsoring trips for students or something like that. Anyway, we got in free. There was a class Alec participated in titled The Campaign Trail to the White House which covered the span of a couple hundred years of elections. It was great. The kids even got to set up their own campaign trail. My advice if you and your family plan on visiting the Newseum, plan to stay for most of the day. There is a lot to do. Parking is across the street for $20 a day.

The Berlin Wall.

I thought this was cool. Ken has an ancestor who purportedly worked for the Pony Express.

Great view of the capitol from atop the Newseum!

As a family, we headed back to D.C. in the evening to attend the Olympic All Stars show at the Verizon Center. We saw Nastia Liukin, Shawn Johnson, the boys' Olympic team (I want to say they won the Silver), and Jordan Pruitt. I know these pictures aren't the best, but I have a small digital camera and was sitting about 13 rows back. So, they are pretty good considering!

Daddy and Daughter before the show.

Nastia Liukin (it was her 19th birthday!)Nastia on beam.The boys' team. They were awesome!Jodan and Shawn Shawn Johnson

It was a great night. Gaby was thrilled to have gone. Young gymnasts from all over were there. Gaby bought an olympic leo to wear to practice this weekend. (She is so spoiled!) All in all, it was a great night and we would definitely do it again!

Haunted Happenings

2008-10-21T17:28:00.005-04:00

The sun sets on Manassas.

This past weekend was rather busy for us here in Manassas. As I mentioned to you previously, we are adding to our family by three (albeit, only temporarily). Megan and her two children will be moving in with us next month. KJ is 2 years old (not pictured) and Tiffany is 7 months old. The situation surrounding their circumstances is private, so I will not delve into it here on line.

This weekend Megan and Tiffany stayed with us, and next weekend, KJ will join in. Beginning in late November or early December the three of them will be living here full time for a month or two.

Tiffany

One of the family activities we had planned for the weekend was to go on the Haunted Happenings in Manassas tour. It was a lot of fun. We learned a lot of old myths and legends surrounding our town. We knew a lot of the history surrounding the battles of Manassas, but not so much about the people. Wow! What a past this city has! Medical students robbing graves. Women poisoning husbands and children. A man falling from the top of a building and surviving because a ghost broke his fall as he passed each story. Lots of crazy stuff!

Manassas City Museum

Our tour guide.Listening and watching on the ghost tour.Rumours abound that there were grave robbers from medical schools in Boston looking for bodies to practice on!

Could these be the grave robbers?

We heard that there were poisonings going on in Manassas! Lots of people dying mysteriously!

What is on the calendar for this coming week... wait to find out!

This week on As The Webb Spins....

2008-10-14T14:31:00.003-04:00

JK!....

Thanks for all the kudos. Alec did this basketry merit badge on his own. Not with his troop. He is also working on finishing up his leatherworking badge.

This past weekend, the boyscouts went up into the Shenandoah mountains and did what was called a Camporee which was very successful. The scouts worked hard, had fun, AND received the highest score of the 13 troops that participated on the night manouvers! They crossed "quicksand" on staves they lashed together. They created "javelins" using their scout staves and rope to "pass intelligence" they received. They built a ladder with their staves to get over a "wall" and copied down a map of the "enemy compound". They were "ambushed" and had to carry their "wounded" to safety on stretchers they built with (of course) their scout staves. They had to sneak through enemy searchlights to reach the final station and deliver the information they collected along the way. And all of this was done by the light of the moon!

They had three good meals planned and prepared by the scouts. They also completed a six-mile hike over a mountain and through meadows of dried flowers. At one point in the woods near the top of the mountain four white-tail does followed by three bucks charged through the woods by them. Once the bucks made sure the does were over the rise and safe they stopped and faced the boys, apparently to make sure that the does were protected from the invaders (the scouts!). Apparently it was a thrilling sight! They saw fish in the stream, a walking stick, a BIG praying mantis, and more.

And, yes, Gaby is still doing gymnastics. Gaby is at the gym 12-15 hours a week practicing HARD! She is competing in a Mock Meet this weekend in Woodbridge in preparation for the meets coming up at William and Mary (VA Beach) and in Maryland. In two weeks she is going to DC to watch the Olympic gymnasts perform. She is very excited. And next month she is actually meeting one of the Olympic gymnastics and getting some pointers and advice from her. Way cool! Of course we'll post pics!

And finally.... we are increasing our family by three members in the next couple of weeks. You'll have to stay tuned!

Webb Family Update

2008-10-10T09:33:00.012-04:00

So much and yet so little goes on every day here at the Webb house. We are in a steady routine that we enjoy, but get so involved that we forget to share what is going on. So, here are a few pictures of the past month of our life. It's been extremely busy and very enjoyable.

Mondays and Wednesday are swim lessons.

Life saving lessons.Finishing the race.

Tuesday and Thursdays are piano lessons.

Tuesday is Fall for Shakespeare.

"Cross that line, Hamlet!" activity.

Thursday is American Youth Statesman.

Alec giving a speech yesterday at the American Youth Statesman class.

Of course, we also have regular schooling going on here all day. Alec is enjoying Liahona where he does Language Arts, Science and Civics. With me he does Latin, Scriptures, Literature, Boy Scout Merit Badge requirements, Math, Cooking and Home Economics.

Gaby is enjoying school for the most part. She finds it interesting that teachers give students tests on things they already know. She deliberately failed a test to point out to a teacher that wasting his time was as easy as wasting hers. We had to have a quick lesson on doing what you're told! She is making all As and Bs and doing well. She enjoys Drama class and is auditioning for the Spring performance of The Music Man.

We did some outside activities as well this month. We went to Kara's baptism. Gaby got her hair coloured at the Manassas Fall Festival. We took a day to walk around Fredericksburg and check out the Antique shops.

And we enjoyed a family movie night outdoors and made carmel apples!

I think that pretty much brings you up to date with our family! Hope all is well with you and yours!

Blog Catch Ups

2008-10-09T18:09:00.003-04:00

Well, I have no life. (Or too much of one!) I was totally too tired to do anything this past hour, so I decided to go to each of your blogs and read them from newest entry to oldest entry and ALL the Comments attached! (Told you I was bored! LOL) I was surprised that on some of the blogs I had missed some entries and great pictures. I try to read them all when they are first posted. (I click on the actual blog name on my blog log and not the latest entry so I can see if others had been recently posted that I missed.) Anyway, it was fun catching up and seeing what everyone said about each post and what your comments back and forth were. I feel like I just went on a family vaca and caught up with everyone! Of course it was seasonal as some pics were snowy winter and others were summer beach shots! You all look like you are having fun. This really is a very active family! Just remember one thing.... the phone is still a great thing! We would love to hear from you all sometime. We miss you all!

The Reviews Are In!

2008-10-06T21:44:00.001-04:00

What people are saying about my class!

http://www.ramseycentral.com/homeschool/hamlet1008/

Alliteration from the Women's Conference

2008-10-05T09:43:00.002-04:00

I know you all went to the Women's Conference last week and took notes. How great was that conference! There was a lot of alliteration in the speeches. Did you pick up on them? They are great. For your enjoyment and edification....

Pursue personal righteousness!

We need to be faith filled Shepherds.

The Spirit is a purifying stream which can refresh every heart.

Pray that the Holy Ghost will add to and purify your words.

Be creative and compassionate.

Your Spirit Body is an amazing masterpiece.

Fear of Failure holds us back.

We must trust and rely on the soothing of the Spirit in our daily lives and we will create a masterpiece.

Let's find happiness in our heritage, for we are the Daughters of our Heavenly Father.

~~~ and from Elder Lund~~

May we ever ask Christ to strengthen our hearts and fill them with His love.

Autumn Days

2008-10-04T16:27:00.007-04:00

Well, as much as I hate to see the Summer go, I have to admit that Autumn is here to stay. We are in full swing here in Manassas. (Though the leaves changing haven't caught up with the festivities.)

This week we had carmel apples. (Thanks Laura for the idea to run the apples through the Apple/Peeler/Corer/Slicer first). On Monday we plan to do candied apples. But it was fun to have carmel apples first.

Today we went to the Fall Festival in Manassas. It was great fun. Ken found a new fencing club to join here in town. Gaby got her hair coloured several fun colours. Alec found some fun things of his own and even bought his sister a Christmas present. (How thoughtful!) We ran into my cousins and their friends and spent some time wandering the streets with them and chatting at the tavern. And we had some great cajun food offered by Okras. Yum!

We've already book dates to tour the "Spirited Past of Manassas" on the 18th; the haunted tour of Liberia Mansion on the 25th; Bull Run Library has a lock in for Middle Schoolers on Halloween night (kids are there from 7pm to 7am the next day!); and of course there is the Trunk or Treat at the church.

Enjoy the Halloween music we added to this blog!

Tagged

2008-10-01T08:24:00.004-04:00

So I was tagged by Laura...

Five things I was doing 10 years ago:

1. Gaby was just born and I was adjusting to having two kids at home.

2. I was running daycare out of my home and getting ready to work from home for the U.S. Marshals Service.

3. I was living in Springfield, VA.

4. I was tired ALL THE TIME!

5. I just really remember being very happy to have adopted again.

Five things on my "To-do" List

1. Actually scrapbook all my pictures - which are now organized.

2. Find props for Saviour of the World Production

3. Create syllabus for Medieval History class I am teaching in the Spring.

4. Get the dogs groomed.

5. Clean the garage...yet again.

Lifesavers -

1. My husband

2. My kids

3. My sil JoJo -- who takes my kids when I absolutely, positively need a break.

4. vacancy

5. yet another vacancy

Five things I would do if I were a Millionaire:

1. Pay off my house

2. Trust fund for the kids

3. Send my siblings each a predetermined sum

4. Travel to Europe

5. Donate the rest to the church.

Five places I have lived:

1. East Coast United States (VA, MD ages 1-4)
2. West Coast United States (CA, CO ages 5-9)
3. Cornwall, England (10-11)
4. East Coast United States (NC, MA 12-16)
5. Then ... Utah, NY, TX and back to VA
(I have lived in over 24 houses. By the age of 12 I had lived in 12 homes!)

Five jobs I have had:
1. Time Life Operator
2. United States Marshals Service
3. Immigration and Naturalization Service
4. Lorton Station Elementary School
5. oh, and various jobs at Pizza Hut

Here's a new twist... Where I plan to be in FIVE years.
1. Living in the same house.
2. Helping Alec prepare to leave on his mission.
3. Finished with my Masters degree.
4. Getting Gaby ready to get her driver's permit.
5. Debt free!

I tag:Emma, Melissa, Jaime, and Jenny

Updates

2008-09-26T15:06:00.002-04:00

Hi there everyone. No fun new pictures this round. And nothing really earth shattering wonderful to write about.

If you take a moment to look at your right at the side bar, you will notice some new blogs that I have created. (One has yet to be created but will be up this weekend.) I have begun to teach Shakespeare to homeschooled Middle School and High Schoolers once a week for six week. You will see the blog titled Fall for Shakespeare. That is the blog I have set up for that group. Take a peek inside and you can get a glimpse of what Alec is learning and what I am teaching.

Another blog that I am creating this weekend is American Youth Statesman. This is a government class (that fortunately meets the requirements for the Boy Scout Public Speaking Merit Badge!) that my friend Tina is teaching. (I'm her Vanna White for this class and she is mine during Shakespeare.) We had our first class yesterday and it was fabulous! All the students in that particular class are also homeschool high school/middle school, but they are also all LDS!

Finally, Alec's Boy Scout blog will remain up and he plans on adding to it as he works on his merit badges and logs the activities he is doing. Feel free to look in and comment.

We are in full swing of homeschooling, so don't be offended if we are not in touch with family and friends as often as we would like to be and are in the summer. Between teaching Alec (and yes, I do teach him), scouts, gymnastics, Achievement Days, callings, teaching Shakespeare and running to piano classes, Amer. Statesman and other classes, I don't get much time to do much of anything else.

Ken is doing well. He is stressed with school, but the light is at the end of the tunnel. He finishes in early November and is thrilled at that prospect.

The kids are thriving in their little worlds of homeschooling and public schooling. Both kids are growing like weeds. While this hits the pocket book, I am happy they are healthy and growing!

Alec has completed a couple merit badges this week... his Music merit badge and his Leatherworking merit badge. His Basketweaving merit badge will be done this weekend. We are so proud of him! He is also working on his Cooking, Citizen of the Nation, Public Speaking, Family Life, Camping, Fingerprinting, and Soil and Conservation merit badges. He volunteered to babysit for a total of six hours for the families taking part in the rehearsals for Saviour of the World to meet his LIFE requirement. He is one busy busy kid!

And that is our update! We hope all is well with you! Now... go check out those blogs and let me know what you think! LOL

Gaby Plays the Cello

2008-09-17T16:42:00.002-04:00

Gaby was going to play Bass... then it was violin... finally she settled on the Cello.

Dad gives some instruction.

A Mom's Version of the William Tell Overture

2008-09-17T11:11:00.003-04:00

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IGoelj7l668

Very funny. My kids got a kick out of it.

20th Wedding Anniversary Celebration

2008-09-15T14:45:00.009-04:00

Our beautiful Anniversary cake.
The cake table.

The patio before the storm.
Very nice and romantic.
Room for all.
Chinese lanterns for decoration.

Art Miranda and Susannah Walton.
Melyssa visiting with David Hill.
Emma Webb.
Sherri and Bill Olsen holding Kireland Webb.
Friends chatting and dining.

Ken waxes poetic.And Melyssa talks.
Fred and Judy Unterberger with Ken's co-workers.
The kiss and dip.The happy couple after 20 years.

Treveon.
Melyssa's cousin Lynn with a friend.

Ken and Melyssa.
The cake before the cut.
The cutting of the cake.

Steady now!

Boom baby! Now, now! Be the bigger man!
Batting the blue eyes.

Opening wide to avoid the greater mess.
And it goes up the nose anyway!
Cleaning up from the mess.

The cousins. Kody, Josh, Allie, and Alec.
Melyssa and Shanae.
Ken visiting with his co-workers.

We didn't get pictures of the guests in the living room or the masses of children playing Wii in the basement. There were a lot of people here! We had a great time and though the rain pushed us all together, we probably were able to chat better because we were forced to be in a small space! Other guests included our friend Cathi Mulroy, my Aunt Linda, Bishop Goodfellow and his wife Linda, the missionaries, Tracey Nielsen, Josh Olsen, Jennifer Hill, and Rick and Betsey Hayward. Thank you everyone for making our celebration one to remember!

Great New YouTube Video From the Church

2008-09-11T09:07:00.000-04:00

http://www.ldsmag.com/youtube/080828christ.html

Saviour of the World Auditions Update

2008-09-07T09:50:00.002-04:00

It is confirmed! Gaby and I are both part of the cast as the Chorus. I have also been placed in the position of Stage director (ie acting coach) and props director. Whoo hoo! We are going to be very busy people. We have rehearsals every Saturday for the next two and a half months! I believe a DVD is being made of the show. I'll let you know. (And you thought you would get out of seeing it. HA! JK)

Landscaping

2008-09-04T13:10:00.004-04:00

There is nothing like throwing a big party to get you in gear to do some work! We decided our front yard needed an overhaul and set to work getting it done.

Ken looks so great working hard in the yard! LOL I was foreman! This part of the yard is courtesy of Comcast. Wasn't that nice?
Front portion done!

We also got the pond redone with a new fountain. After the rosebeds are tidied I'll post pictures of the backyard. Thanks, honey!

Gaby Heads Back to School

2008-09-03T11:48:00.004-04:00

All dressed and ready to start 5th Grade. Gaby couldn't fall asleep until 4 am and got up at 6am. She was a bit nervous or excited. We aren't sure which one. She is happy to be in the same class as her cousin Abbie and a few friends from church.Time to walk to the bus!
Sniff. Good-bye Dad! I'll miss you!

(Dad will miss sleeping in until 8:30 every day!)

The morning pick up.

Gaby had a great day and has decided now that instead of the BASS she is going to play the Viola. She likes her teachers so far. They don't believe in homework on the first week of school or on weekends. (We like that too!) They were excited that Gaby had been homeschooled, and she will still be able to take homeschool field trips with us. YAY! Looks like the first week is going off without a hitch. Alec doesn't begin for another week, and he is sure missing his sister. Awe!

Saviour of the World Auditions (Musical)

2008-09-01T09:16:00.004-04:00

Congratulations to Gaby, who got accepted to be in the chorus of our Stake production of Saviour of the World. The show will be in December to celebrate the birth of Christ.

Mom auditioned as well and has call backs on the 4th. Cross your fingers! Even if I don't get cast, I've already been signed on to be the Drama coach for the actors and will fill in as chorus. Good times!

Wish us luck! It is a solid practice schedule several days (every weekend) for the next three months (starting this week)! GULP!

http://www.lds.org/pa/display/0,17884,7174-1,00.html

Big Plans in the Works!!!

2008-08-27T16:25:00.002-04:00

As you know, Ken and I are celebrating 20 years together in a couple of weeks. Well, we are throwing a big bash! Yep! That's right! I didn't send out invites to out-of -staters because we knew the cost would be too much to come. Sorry! But we know you will be here in spirit.

We are holding it on September 13 (our Annv is September 10) at our house. It is going to be a very modest affair. Since the Annivesary is Platinum or China, I decided to decorate Chinese style and use that as the party theme. I went out and bought Chinese lanterns to hang from the porch and deck. The pool should be down by then and the fire pit back in place. The drink bar (go Ken with his Nada Coladas and Daiquiris!) will be stocked and ready to go, and the speakers will be set and ready for the IPOD of music.

I am thinking of putting together a DVD of us through the past 20 years. Is that cheesie? We can have a screen up and the pics going. Hmmmm... I dunno.

We are still in planning stages of the food. Any ideas? I want to keep the food cost down as much as possible. But, we have a lot of people coming! Of course, half of them are Dave's family! LOL

Anyway, any ideas you can throw my way would be awesome!

Gaby's Sleepover Slumber Party

2008-08-24T12:09:00.006-04:00

As you know, we don't celebrate Birthdays... we celebrate Birth MONTHS! Here are pictures from last night's party. The pool and hot tub pictures didn't come out because it got too dark. But trust me, they had fun!

Suzette gives Gaby a facial.

Lauren gives Suzette a facial.

Amanda soaks for a pedi.

Allie does Lauren's nails.

Allie does Gaby's nails.
Joy and Gaby make pizza.
Lauren gets a facial.

Allie does Suzette's hair.
Joy gets her nails done.

Ken shows Suzette his "dance moves."

The Morning After.

New Blogs

2008-08-23T14:12:00.003-04:00

Take a look at my Blog Log. You will notce some new blogs are up. One is Meals in Minutes. I have started a recipe blog that has our family recipes on it. Ours meaning... mine and ones that I have inherited from the Webb Clan (that includes Rosses and Drewes!).

Also, Alec posted a Boy Scout blog. He is working on his Citizen of the Community badge. Take a moment to check it out.

Enjoy!

You know how it is!

2008-08-21T17:30:00.002-04:00